I like my men full figured, tall and kind. I could care less about the trim or muscled figures, most are conceited anyway, I prefer kind!

Attraction in mind or not , feeding people is what we do in my culture / ways .
I mean , life revolves around foods and drinks and snacks and coffee 24/7 in Italy and Greece .
Not offering foods and not making time for your people to sit down for long times to talk and chew , is unheard
But most of us we are not gaining weight , at least my generation . I think it might be bcz we walk everywhere we can ? Or bcz the types of foods we eat ? I don’t know . But absolutely feeding anyone I care for .

That would only be in the US. Preferred body types everywhere else in the world are broader than 'slim'. However, I have been frustrated that shortly after the relationship becomes stable and reliable, the pounds pile on. After marriage, my ex-wife's stomach folded over her crotch in a matter of years. It's really not healthy to let oneself go like that. One gal bicycled everywhere and had a lean muscular body. It was sad to see her degrade it with beer. But, I also have my own work to do.

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Hospitality is a human custom. The polite slim, fit, active person would accept the invitation…and eat as they chose.