Today I was getting my hair-did at the hair salon. My hair stylist and I were discussing the economic ramifications of the tax bill that was passed early this morning, when the topic turned to religious influences in politics and our society in general. I usually say something like "I'm not very religious" rather than a straightforward "I'm an atheist" so that I don't need to have that confrontational discussion (plus, she has scissors in her hands and she's pregnant, so...), so I made that comment when she asked me about my religious views.
She looks at me, and says, "Oh, my dear, my husband and I are atheists. I assumed you were one, too. "
I almost cried -- her pregnancy hormones must have been catching 
We are now like instant BFFs. I already adored her before (she is really sweet and makes me look super pretty), but she made me feel instantly accepted in a town where I sometimes feel isolated due to my lack of religious views.
I wanted to share here -- I assume many of you might be able to relate? 
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We make new friends when we least expect it. If someone asks your view I would answer.
sassygirl3869
Level 9
Dec 6, 2017
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Non-theists! Come out! Come out! Wherever you are!
GareBear517
Level 7
Dec 3, 2017
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It's nice to feel accepted and to have a common bond with someone you already like. I know some nonreligious people, but I may be the only person in my social circles who outright identifies as atheist — or maybe I'm just the most open about it when it comes up. I'm fine with that, though. I've never felt a lot of pressure to find peers with similar views as I hold.
resserts
Level 8
Dec 2, 2017
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That is beautiful! Thank you… I’ve often wondered how many around me honestly doubt religion yet tolerate it just to ‘fit in,’ or maintain their clients/ jobs..? Isn’t it a breath of fresh air and a ray of sunshine when you meet!
Anymore, with seemingly less to lose ..and even within a small town, I find myself ‘opening up’ to my disbelief. Respected, and freer from detrimental retribution than ever before, it’s amazing how little negative feedback I get. Sounds like you’re heading in the same direction, so carry on
Varn
Level 8
Dec 2, 2017
1
Varn:
Having moved from Oregon to Appalachia … it’s somewhat of a culture shock.. And though folks are hospitable, I’m sure much is being said behind backs… I’ve so appreciated following my mother’s escapades as an Atheist, from her midwest upbringing - out to Oregon to escape it. Any more, into her eighties, she goes for it! And, she’s got the education and experience to back it up. I’m not quite ready to follow her lead, ending up dumped in a holler is a concern… but it’s exciting to speak up, even ‘around here.’ And, as you’ve described, ya never know when you’ve met someone just waiting to do the same unless you speak up
Awesome story. I’ve actually had that happen a couple of times in the last few months. Once with a coworker and once with someone in my book club. Both times I was totally shocked and secretly so excited. It’s such an awesome feeling finding out you’re not the only non religious person out there!
Alliegirl
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Dec 2, 2017
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