Reminds me of a funny but true story...I had a date with a nursing student at a local catholic hospital. we went to see Janis Joplin. the event lasted longer then we thought and my date had to call the dorm where she was staying to let them know she was going to be late. when we got back to the dorm, the nuns greeted us at the door. I said good nite to my date and asked if the nun would turn around that I wanted to kiss my date good night. the nun laughed and turned around.

It all depends on how you said it, how well you knew her before the date, and so on. Lots of people have sex on the first date, not that I'm recommending it, so the idea that you had to be wrong is wrong.

Unless you were crass about it, I'd say she overreacted. Given the fact that she never spoke to you again and that you are asking about it now, my guess is that you creeped her out by how you asked and you already know the answer to your question.

You didn't mention if this was your first date and your age. It would help to have more information before I could respond.

You guys weren’t compatible, lucky you got a kiss

You'd have to know everything about her to know why she responded that way. Also, you don't say it was a first, second, third or so on date. Some people don't have sex on the first date and think the expectation of it is wrong.

I think it could also be asked if your proclamation that you "wanted to have sex with her" was appropriate.

Just to clarify things. I was about 18 and it was a second date I believe. I remember it well because it devastated me for awhile.

You say she got quite angry with you. What does that mean? It is hard to say if it was appropriate if you don't describe what you are talking about.

WTF and a punch in the face is different than saying that it was too soon to be saying something like that.

I have never asked to have sex with someone. One thing just leads to another and is stopped when it goes beyond what someone wants.

The closest I've got to that was my ex. asking if I 'wanted to do sex at her' Thor knows where that came from! I think she'd been sniffing something beforehand. This became our 'go to' mating call.

Absolutely for ...1963..a broken nose is more appropriate today..seriously..Telling anyone you want sex with them is inappropriate...at anytime..especially on the 1st date..

Yes very much so. Basically you are telling her that sex is the only thing you are interested in her for. That's just insulting. Even if its not the only thing you are interested in you put it first before you got to know her as a human being. So yeah, I would have reacted similarly.

The use of the word "appropriate" is interesting. I think there is something missing in this story

Was this the first date or the third. My rule has always been to wait to try till the third date. While I believe women know much sooner whether they want to have sex with you, there might be a certain comfort level that needs to be reached for them first.. That level is probably relative to the connection they feel with the man as well as their level of intoxication. Just my opinion.

A wide range of responses. A good discussion on a somewhat old issue influenced by philosophies of free thinkers, right and left wing thinkers and so on. With a stirring of religious conservatives

At least you didn't have to go see Jerry Springer