Which Statement Hurts Most in Relationship?
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The worst one's aren't on this list. The spiteful, 'I hate you!', the loveless drone of 'I'm not happy', or the stab of, 'I gave up on you a long time ago'. All of these are hurtful, of course, and each situation is different, but for me, these are the worst.
DerekD
Level 7
May 10, 2018
4
Him: I think I love you as a friend.
Said exactly six year's into our relationship and two weeks before our wedding.
I didn't see that on the list. Probably because it's to F'ing horrible to even imagine
Iamkratom
Level 7
May 10, 2018
2
That is just disgusting I swear. You must be a very strong person. I don't know if I could have handled this. ?
@Alexa thank you. It was very hard to watch my parents take such a financial hit for nothing. They paid for everything and got nothing in return except a hot mess daughter. People even took their shower gifts back which almost broke me emotionally. My strength I owe all to my parents. They were my rock. My sister was a gem as well. We purchased the bridesmaids dresses at a department store to cut cost. His parents did reimburse the bridal party. I, in turn had to give them the bridesmaids dresses. My sister did that on my behalf. Little did I know she cutoff all the tags inside and the price tags as well as made them appear as previously used. Once the money was in hand she handed over the dresses which obviously could not be returned. Juvenile some might say, but at the time I my heart needed to return the sucker punch in a small way.
I did marry. Wore the same dress ai picked for that wedding. For the most part we were happy. We are separated now but remain close friends. The ex? Well he never did marry and joined the Navy on my wedding day.
None of the above? In my experience, "I think you've done enough." was the one that broke me into the smallest pieces.
Kafirah
Level 8
May 10, 2018
2
@hindsight2020 Yeah. That one would leave a mark for sure.
"I want to be with you"
Followed by abandonment lol
Piece2YourPuzzle
Level 8
May 10, 2018
3
@evestrat Long story lol
I think 5 would hurt the most. It hasn't personally happened to me but at this point in my life, it would be tough to deal hearing that. Few others just seem a bit childish and vindictive.
mistymoon77
Level 9
May 10, 2018
2
Gotta be a mixture of 6 or 7, but 7 is worse imo
WhatsInAName
Level 6
May 10, 2018
2
Hell...ive never heard any if those and ive been divorced 2 times. I left 2 girlfriends and one left me. She wasnt ready for a long term relationship... nothing personal.
BucketlistBob
Level 8
May 10, 2018
2
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