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Which Statement Hurts Most in Relationship?

sassygirl3869 9 May 10
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All. Funny how most people's real thoughts only come out in spite.
Or when they're drunk.
Also part of why relationships fail.

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For me it would be #3. Luckily, I've never had that said to me, or even implied.

@Donotbelieve I'm sorry. I hope you feel better off without them.

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They can all be devastating depending on your investment and sensitivity.

Betty Level 8 May 10, 2018
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They are all hurtful. Probably #3 or #5 are the most crushing especially if it was a relationship of more than 6 months. They all mean "hit the road" and every person handles rejection and people often make a decision to break up in as nasty a way as possible

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7
Unfortunately it happened to me

Alexa Level 5 May 11, 2018

It also happened to me

That's terrible I'm sorry. I married my partner of 4 yrs only to find out that she liked to entertain the advances of other guys.

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all could be affective

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Never had any of those told to me directly, but have experienced 1, 2, and 5 in various combinations.

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I've never heard #4, so that one's out. XD

I vote for #8 - "I'm not going to be quiet anytime soon."

Also, "Fix your own Damn dinner!" sucks too.

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I actually got "ghosted" by a person I thought I had a genuine connection with... That one was really bad because there was no closure... :/

I think you're right. Not being told anything is probably the worst.

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I love you but I am not in love with you..

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"I love you."

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Want something truly hurtful?

"Why, Jeffrey? Why?"

"Because you were convenient, Baby."

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Three or four would get me.

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After 16 years of marriage:
Him: "I don't love you anymore."
Me: "What? What are you saying?"
Him: "I love you but I am not in LOVE with you anymore"
Me: (crying into my meatballs at an Italian restaurant) And you're telling me here?" Is there someone else?
Him: "No."

(3 months later)
Me to my mom: "He has been seeing someone else for a year."

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What do you want for tea?

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3 for sure..life is too short to be messed around..

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"I've met someone else."

That's honest though. Who wants to be with someone who's pining for another?!
Not me!

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All of them and then some !

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  1. It's me, not you.
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IDK, I've been married since 1984. Can't remember who said what previously.

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