Guys, you do realize that we receive notifications EACH time you visit our profiles? I'm considering a ten visit limit before you must make actual contact. ? Say hi at least.
Why I check profiles? Because the person may have said something interesting and I wish to follow his / her opinions.
Why I check profiles and I don't say "Hi"? Because the person lives far away, is only an Agnostic, has said something stupid and I must block him/her.......
I haven't been to your page yet, so I won't say hi, yet.....
I hadn't really considered that people would be bothered by visits as I am not, but you are probably right, it would be good manners. I tend to look at profiles during discussions to remind me whose post it is that I'm reading as my memory for people is pretty rubbish. So it helps me to focus on a character as well as what they say.
To be honest, I rarely even search on here because there are so few women in my area (which is ironic, because I live in a city of 9 million people which is also considered a fairly liberal place). But that is good to know in case I do visit a profile at some point.
I agree that it gets convoluted with mixing a blog site with a dating site. And I sometimes go to someone's page after they comment on my post or comment just to see who they are but I don't do it repeatedly
I don't mind that.
I don't mind. I just wanted to let guys know we know. I actually went on a date with one of my repeat visitors recently and he wasn't aware that was the case.
@MarlaPaine
hmmmm.
I'd think they would be experiencing the same thing.
I actually had a visitor within 30ish miles the other day.
If you wanted me to look you could have just asked.
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It's really, REALLY easy to do that accidentally. Sorry if I've done it inadvertently...I'll bet many other people have done the same.