I'm generally not prone to mystical or spiritual stuff...but I transplanted some Irises from my mom's house (she passed away many years ago)... and every spring when they bloom, it's like a part of her is still with me. Sappy, I know.
It is scary but when my mother moved into her nursing home I took a nice bromeliad which she owned for many years and it always flowered. But it never flowered for me. Last week my Mum died, and when I arrived home from the funeral her Bromeliad was flowering.
It's not sappy. It's human. Dismiss anyone who ridicules your humanity.
Irises are beautiful.
I think it is very sweet. Reminders are comforting. ❤❤❤
be it 'mystikal' or 'spiritual', they bring her memory to your mind. That is BEAUTIFUL, and invaluable. You never need make apologies for that - just love every moment, and every breath of the fragrance that brings her into your heart so fully.
One does NOT need there to be a GOD to appreciate the poetry of life, or the possibility of what comes after, as we live only in the hearts of those we leave behind. Make no apologies when love brings you joy.
I have a similar thing. After my grandfather died, we planted some flowers from a basket at the service. One little vine comes back every year. It always reminds me of my tough, resilient grandpap.
It isn't sappy at all. It is nice to see the beautiful flowers and feel your mom's essence.
It's not sappy, it is very sweet and a very fitting tribute to your mom.