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I've been a band mom for 6 years and with 2 kids have gone to a LOT of concerts and I will never ever understand the audience! I swear, most of the time, I am the only one tapping a foot or moving at all! (I do more than tap my foot!) To see a sea of parents just sitting still and stoic as their children play their hearts out just boggles my mind. Wtf?

pepperjones 8 May 30
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They're texting or busy surfing, or maybe being social on Agnostic?

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Go to a Slayer concert! Things will change. lol

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My first born used to manage an Industrial Metal Band. My ex wife went to one of their concerts... Her review? TOO DAMN LOUD! Somewhere in storage are a couple of their CD's to be played after hearing loss.

Ear plugs. I've been literally hundreds of concerts. I don't learn tho. Lol

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I was at a concert with a friend. She moved to the music while I sat perfectly still but I can't say one one of us enjoyed the music less than the other. Just different styles of listening!

Roger Level 2 May 31, 2018
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fuck that life too short

@pepperjones never turn down the opportunities for fun or pleasure

@pepperjones xxxx

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so many people are lifeless - they don't know how to enjoy anything, and have been taught to not express themselves. I much prefer an audience that is vibrant and full of the life the music is showing!

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Your the lucky one! The others are wishing it was over.

@pepperjones
Because they are your kids !!

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Never been a band parent but am strongly in favor of music education; especially encouraging them to compose and seek new genres.

This 'Rock and Roll' thing is really getting borrrrring. Between 1900 and a950 American music took the world by storm and not in just one genre. We went into Ragtime to Jazz to Tin Pan Alley popular music also called Jazz to Blues including distinctive sounding 1920's-30's bands playing all of it, to Swing and the later, more homogenized Big Band styles of the 1940's.

Rock and Roll emerged in the early 50's and held for a couple of decades with some really creative times until... electronics and computers began replacing people, gradually to the point where people have largely become a minority in their own 'native' form of expression. They still call much of it Rock and Roll or some form of 'rock'.

Really, it's been 68 years and the few bands comprised entirely of humans making the sounds are usually young men dressed as alien as possible, jumping around strumming the ever present three or more guitars, screaming and whining into mics, with some guy banging drums, rolling his head and shaking his hair like a lunatic. Grand Funk Railroad et al were doing this stuff, only better, in the 70's.

Maybe they don't get emotionally involved in their kids' music because music itself has lost so much human emotion in the real adult world; so much alive, human resonance to the water torture perfect percussion of sound beds and synthesized tones phrased redundantly within the dead tempo? At least the 'jock' parents know that the impossible odds their kids must compete against in gaining fame will allow them to show talents personally without interference by or subjection to machines. Who knows? The future of real music NEEDS some talented, visioned young artists.

Maybe people are getting so subconsciously weary of the emotionless drone of electronics that they are hungry for it and will migrate toward it. By playing old recordings of young people in the past making real music, some truly interesting responses and comments happen. Very young people come up and ask if I played it, complement it, (as though I'm the musician or something) and say they really like how it sounds. People all around will unconsciously and involuntarily move to it and 'catch themselves', laugh and start moving more. NO KIDDING.

Many places have these Internet connected players that allow searches. Try it yourselves. BRING THE BAND KIDS. Long past time for me to shut up this rant. Here's only one early swing sample by a strict tempo British Orchestra.

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Band parents are probably mind numb from attending games and trying to keep up with their young. I'm sure they're zoned out, thinking of all the stuff they could be doing instead of enduring yet another school event.

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I know! Love your kids: love their crafts! Love it! Love it!
If they just tolerate it then the kids will just tolerate it and give up first excuse!
Love them? Love their art!
Don’t you Dare look at your watch!

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I agree. Old school band dad here...

@pepperjones I've done band boosters, fund raisers, band camps, clinics, what not...it's in the blood. I've walked parades and manned the floats.. love it!????

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I'd be happy if they just shut up! Once the band teacher stopped the performance, turned around, & told 2 men having a loud conversation in the back of the room to either be quiet or leave. Can't believe the bad manners of so many adults!

Carin Level 8 May 31, 2018
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That's adults for ya

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Parents probably just hope their kids don't screw up. They aren't there to enjoy the music.

It's less than they would be worried their child will screw up and embarrass them than that the child will make a mistake and be very upset by the experience. That's what I'd worry about but I also love to hear the children perform and enjoy the music.

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