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How can I stop acting feminine/gay?

I am a 27years old man who would pass as bi, but have never acted on his gay feelings because I grew up in Nigeria and will like to keep my head on my shoulders.
I left Nigeria last year December to apply for asylum in the U.S. but I was denied because I am an atheist. (Because let's face it, that country was founded by slave owners who said all men were created equal and presently run by rich bigots.)
I'm now in Canada applying for asylum. But I could use a more masculine body, voice and the likes; or a may not survive the refugee shelter I am presently placed.
So what do you guys think about the use of drugs for this purpose?

Malachiseyi 4 June 10
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Can you just assume a more macho persona? Walk with a more masculine gait, speak with a deeper voice? Mask any effeminate traits through physical control. I know it's unnatural to behave other than what comes naturally but you asked and this seems like the quickest fix and is a drug-free option.

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No...don't do it. Drugs can really mess you up - although you didn't say which drugs you were looking at taking (I assume steroids). Other drugs may do more harm, since you might not have the faculties to handle situations that arise. I suggest you just act a little crazy...talk to yourself, yell at imaginary people, bark at your socks...just do odd shit and people will typically leave you alone b/c they don't know what kind of crazy shit you will do next.

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Inject Testosterone and watch lots of John Wayne movies:

BD66 Level 8 Nov 1, 2018
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How did they know you were Atheist, and how do you know that is the reason you were denied?

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Just be yourself

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If you are acting, as you typed, stop. If it's you that is showing, accept and embrace it.

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It's sad that you can't just be yourself. If you do get into General pupulation, carry a gun on your hip and wear a body cam so that if anyone threatens you you can protect yourself and have evidence of self defense

They aren't going to let him have a gun where he's at. It's not prison, it's a refugee camp but still, it's usually one step removed from prison. I hope that, being in Canada, he's being treated better than he would have here anyway. We are treating refugees horribly right now due to the toddler in the WH.

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I'm sorry that you have to worry about that.
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