Some people accuse me of being negative but a few tell me I'm so good at making humorous complaints that they don't mind. I really don't care very much what people think anymore.

I have a friend that gave me a great motto. Can complain, choose not to. I think of that often

1. i know how much i complain. i try to do it to the people who can do something ABOUT my complaint, or to someone who will acknowledge my feelings and comfort me. sometimes that person is myself.

2. no one likes people who complain excessively. however, not every has the same threshold. complaining when appropriate and complaining excessively, and to the wrong people, are not the same thing.

3. i have issues too, and am disabled as well. however, when i complain it is often about injustice, and for the purpose of ending the injustice. thinking happy thoughts doesn't get things done.

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