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Are you more open and honest online than in person?

Over 50,000 people were surveyed. Here’s what they found: 60% of respondents in the U.S. said they were more honest with their online friends than with friends they see in person. The survey also found that people are more open on the internet and the majority of the world prefers to discuss their sex life with online friends. In my experience, I have found that online friendships facilitate a frankness that is rare in face-to-face interactions.

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What about you? Do you find that you tend to be more honest and open with online friends than with friends you hang out with in person?

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VictoriaNotes 9 Jan 22
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The only reason I chose this is the word "tend". I do have close friends I can discuss things I wouldn't normally share with others. Being somewhat of an introvert it's easier to think of what I am saying than to do so spontaneously.

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I think that is true for me in many relationships, primarily because in my personal friendships I do not want to run the risk of losing them, well, most of them, anyway because of being too frank. Whereas, there is not as much invested with online relationships, which are usually more like acquaintences.

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I'm pretty much the same from what I can tell...people online say I ask too many questions and people irl say the same thing lol

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I'm not any less open in person.

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Me is me - no matter where.

In fact a couple people I met from online sources, said I spoke like I write - only funnier.

I liked that. (smile)

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Oh, @VictoriaNotes, your situation makes me feel downright lucky. I’m sorry it’s been so alienating for you, and I hope new (better) friends come into your life to compensate for the shallow, judgmental ones you lost.

I’m a pretty private person whether online or offline. I tend to have a lot of acquaintances but very few close friends. Only one IRL friend knows where the bodies (and the unedited conversations about sex) are buried. However, in that small sampling of close friends are people I’ve met online who are cross-over: we eventually met IRL.

I think “online” is an awfully broad term. To me, there’s a difference in exposing every inner thought on Facebook than there is in opening up in a forum such as this one.

@VictoriaNotes What a fantastic quote, Victoria! I have several people that I’m sharing it with right now.

Years ago, I joined Goodreads for a book club and ended up in a private group of like-minded women who also weren’t religious, were raising free-thinking children, and found the world exciting instead of the “different is suspect” attitude I found locally. I’m lucky that, even if it took searching them out from around the world, I had found them.

My daughter has followed in my footsteps and has an extensive network of friends worldwide, and technology has improved so that it’s even easier for her. I wish I’d had this opportunity when I was an alienated high school student. It would have helped to know I wasn't alone.

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No, I am just as open in person as on-line. People can ask me anything, anytime (except for the obvious things like SS#, obviously) and get a completely honest answer...However, I do warn people that they might not care for my answer in a lot of cases. I have no secrets, and with a little careful detective work someone could find out anything they wanted to know about me anyway...

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Nope. I am a pathological liar and never tell the truth anyway.

But I could be lying about that...... 🙂

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I am the same.

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I'm the same in all situations.

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With me, what you see is what you get. I am truthful both ways. Also, I don't tell all I know. Somethings are better unsaid.

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I'm pretty honest in both scenarios. I try to be frank and to the point at the best of my ability both online and in person; though my lack of eloquence makes it a bit difficult.

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Online is ALL bullshit

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I think I am just as open in person or online. However, I think I’m more vocal online. Well obviously vocal isn’t the right word. I express myself more frequently online. That sounds better. I’m really the same guy at the store or on the sidewalk as I am online. Quality unchanged, quantity increased online.

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sometimes more, sometimes less, depends on the company.

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