You have no right to be shitty to anyone who isn't being shitty to you.
 Piece2YourPuzzle
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 17, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Piece2YourPuzzle
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 17, 2018                                            
                                        Waking up gives you the right to be un-pleasant.
 mattersauce
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 17, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    mattersauce
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 17, 2018                                            
                                        My landlord is a super sweet and always smiling compulsive lieing manipulative control freak, who shares (gossips) the personal situations or lives of the tenants to all of we tenants. And she feels as a landlord, she deserves the "truth" regarding any question (interrogation) she puts forth. I was ill with a low grade fever this weekend and indeed having a bad day when I found myself dealing with her sweetly disguised manipulative insinuations, and I was very unpleasant towards her. . She deserved my OWN insinuations and she was thus provided a tablespoon of her own medicine. Sometimes people who go around slapping others, need to be slapped right back.
 LilAtheistLady
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 17, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    LilAtheistLady
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 17, 2018                                            
                                        I think if your around the person that ruined your day you have the right to be a jerk towards them.
 shy-atheist
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Sep 17, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    shy-atheist
                                                
                                                Level 5
                                                Sep 17, 2018                                            
                                        I try not to be unpleasant. I can see where it might make one grumpy.
 hippiebohogirl
                                                
                                                Level 1
                                                Sep 17, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    hippiebohogirl
                                                
                                                Level 1
                                                Sep 17, 2018                                            
                                        Nope -- unless it's to the person who was the cause of the bad day.
 ladyprof70
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    ladyprof70
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        Only to those directly involved it making it the bad day...
 seattlepanda
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    seattlepanda
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        Absolutely not, also, I feel being unpleasant just lengthens your misery.
 JenBeberstein
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    JenBeberstein
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        No. It gives you no rights what-so-ever. When one feels a bad day provides the right to be a jerk it's important to understand that a jerk just feels like they have justification to be a jerk. To the rest of the world it's just a jerk acting like a jerk. Jerks everywhere are just looking for excuses to openly act like the jerk they are and feel that the have a "free pass" at being that jerk (as if there is such a thing). If one is not a jerk then they just temporarily keep their mouth shut.
 OCJoe
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    OCJoe
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        Yes. However, it doesn't give one freedom from the consequences of said unpleasantness. There's a difference, though, between 'unpleasant' and 'cruel' or 'mean-spirited.'. I try not to be deliberately hurtful, but I'm not going to force myself to be sunshine and puppies 24/7, either.
 memorylikeasieve
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    memorylikeasieve
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        Generally no, it gives me the right to keep to myself until I feel better, or to sit on it and spin. It's a likely explanation but not an excuse.
But it depends on how unpleasant vs how bad of a day really; it's all relative. A lot of bad days could be bad enough to fully excuse some minor levels of impatience, anxiety, or being unwilling/able to feign cordiality, oblige solicitors, or abide obnoxious small talk. If by unpleasant you mean your behavior has devolved into recklessness, or actionable beligerence then no, your day probably wasnt bad enough to warrant that unless you're actively being assaulted.
 Wurlitzer
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Wurlitzer
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        This is on topic...
Today was total bullshit. Still, I've shut my trap and kept my naturally aggressive nature to myself. It's bad enough I got treated like a diaper today. It's no good speaking that shit into others.
 HonkyBMcfunky
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    HonkyBMcfunky
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Sep 16, 2018                                            
                                        Legally, everyone has a right to be unpleasant. The constitution freedoms of speech, press, religion, etc. protect the right to be unpleasant.
Ethically, I think it wrong to be unpleasant for having a bad day. We should always be kind to others. Besides, we will get more sympathy and comfort if we avoid being unpleasant, and maybe explain that we are a little on edge because such and such happened to us.
 BestWithoutGods
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    BestWithoutGods
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Sep 16, 2018