cigarette smoker, excessive drinking, separated (get divorced before going looking for another), trump supporter, repub, AR-15 user or supporter, displaying the confederate flag, non animal lover, climate change denier, those who disparage Democrats or Liberals, fox news watcher, people who fat shame when they are fat!, trophy hunters, someone that doesn't read books, people just looking for sex, and finally anyone who is involved with organized religion.

Separated
Hookup/short term
Conservative/Republican
Anything southern..Rebel flag/Southern Proud (u know that's a racist)
"Been clean for almost 2 months"
Gun Lover.. (again, more than likely.. racist or conservative)
Yep.. run away!

Indications that they are addicted to a political identity that requires them to accept whatever their leaders declare to be true; no matter how absurd. They are on the fringes of the Right and Left but much more so on the left.

Finding anyone who truly thinks for themselves based on facts, independent study and personal experience over the pap dished out by parties and the press is nearly impossible; but one can hope.

Like the old saying: "Live in hope, die in despair."

The ones which say they are here to meet men and have no photo. That makes absolutely no sense. When they do post photos, attempt a smile in at least one photo. Some folks look like they are in a lineup. If they love to camp, that is a no. I do like hiking. No hunters. I don't care if they are perfect in every other way.

In every picture a woman is showing off her breasts or way to much cleavage modest is hottest that's all I'm saying

Smoker.
Member of any organized religion, with a possible exception for Buddhism.
Trump supporter, or other right wing connections.

While not an absolute 'Nope,' I prefer dating someone who does not drink alcohol or use weed, especially excessively.

I also find bad grammar to be a turn off (but bad Gramma can be a different story ).

A guy contacted me, I looked at his profile and found there a Pro-Trump, anti-socialist rant. I politely wrote him back "Thanks for contacting me, I don't think we are going to be compatible, and good luck to you" and he wrote back

"Crap, Your(sic) a liberal Turd" ...

I thought to myself .... What kind of people are these?

Name-calling? How immature, uncivil and totally uncalled for!

Anyone who rejects the love of JESUS CHRIST Our Savior and GOD Our Father!

I do very poorly here.

Not as much of it found here as tinder n other dating apps/sites but: conservative, religious, kids at home, eat pray and live laugh love, and nevertheless she persisted are becoming red flag memes lately... Pictures of her letting a dog kiss her on the mouth/lick her face are disturbingly common too, that's incredibly gross (unless its a spontaneous puppy kiss but these are usually big dogs that they seem to be practically making out with daily, gag me with a spoon.)

Republican, Trump fan, religious........

Learned a little viewing this thread... The first thing that comes to my mind is any Trump fan... But I doubt you'd find many here anyway.

Some people should lighten up... But I guess that''s just me

As soon as someone starts to get demanding and tell what they will and will not tolerate I kind of head the other direction. I understand that people have their needs likes and dislikes I just don't like it expressed in an arrogant uncompromising Style

I concur with most of your reasoning. The biggest one for me, would be complacency. If someone, through their posts, shows an inability to alter their world views when confronted with new ideas, that's the no go for me. Cognitive dissonance is frankly disgusting IMO.

Reading what a person has posted is the best research to learn who they might actually be. Difficult to hide one's stupidity for long.

I would prefer more questions, sorta like OKCupid. But the free form conversations here are most useful.

I agree with a few things you have listed here. Not sure I want an LTR and I certainly do not want a smoker. Can't stand a conservative because they believe all the Trump nonsense and didn't even think that way until Trump actually came along. Must be Trumpzombies? I might weigh 250 but I don't want you to. If you call yourself atheist but you are still "spiritual" you are not for me. Spiritual can be anything you want it to be. If you flip flop on atheism you are not for me. I'm not wanting a situation where we get along perfect and then you "find god again" and some guy who says he is a minister declares we are "not equally yoked" and you justify breaking up because of that. I been around a while and I've seen a lot of things.

Is a long "No" list a sign of an inability to love?

Have to be careful with that because people define words differently. For me spirituality means trying to elevate my spirit, rather than any superstitious meaning.

And people wonder why they are still single.
At least I admit that I'll be a bachelor the rest of my life and have no real chance of any relationship.
I don't find overweight women attractive for the same reason I don't like the way liver tastes. It just is.
I am attracted to long, wavy, curly hair more than straight hair. I suppose that makes me a cretin too some as well.
The thing is, I don't care what you think of me, I don't have anything invested except a few words on website. If you don't like me, that's fine, block me. If you do like me that's fine as well.
Let's just all be honest and stop tip-toeing around political correctness because you might hurt one's feelings. Life happens and these things happen also. Utopia does not exist.

Drinking, hook up, no pics, misspelling.

A guy hit me up on Match whose profile stated he was looking for a "feminine, submissive woman" who shouldn't "show up without makeup" and that he didn't date outside his race.
ALL the nopes!!!!!

If a guy's profile talks about how much he loves working out, has gym pics, and says he's looking for someone "in shape," who " takes care of herself," I assume this is code for "no higher than 8% body fat."

Great question. Learned a lot reading the answers!

I am content with any "nopes" on my profile. I am what I am. At least I'm honest.

male. trans. other. etc, etc, etc.

The two you mentioned, especially the blatant religious types(cross in photo, praise for god in photo, etc.), plus usually a heavy smoker is a no no..