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Dating dealbreakers

What are your dating dealbreakers? That is, what characteristics absolutely remove a potential partner from consideration?

A2Jennifer 8 Jan 29
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From a guys veiw.... 1. bad posture 2. Bare fingernails. 3 implants 4. Painted hair 5. Smoker
That's enough....

I thought guys liked implants.

Ok is painted hair - hair dye? Or chalking or? Any of the above. lol Never thought I'd dye my hair until it came in like a dudes. With the grey side wings. Just can't do it. Will go grey when I have more of grey or more precisely - white!

@HippieChick58 its a sign of insecurity. Like a guy walking around with super big arms. So what..

@RavenCT. Pink hair . Green hair. Different multi colors. ...

@HippieChick58. It's a visual eye catcher... it's also trailer park guys that like that. I like an all natural lady. Natural beauty is awesome. Not all that make-up. Class turns me on.

@BucketlistBob Good clarification. Most guys can't pick out a good dye job.

@HippieChick58 You know I think that might be a porn industry myth? I was offered an implant after Breast Cancer surgery - but I'm kind of content with my A and my D sides? Maybe it's the feminist in me. Or my older cousin saying "Now I have one that points forward and one that points at my belt". Every women of this generation in my family got hit with it so I have some word of mouth to go on. Or it could be that I could really notch an arrow now unless I have my prosthetic on? lol

@RavenCT. I've seen this in ladies I had to help out. Some in nursing homes. To me it's a badge of honor when you could save yourself by removing a breast. It sucks dealing with prosthetic. My ex Sunday school teacher across the street from me had to have both of hers removed and she and he have radiation treatments. He just retired. What a kick in the ball's. All the money they have spent. Geeze!

@BucketlistBob Oh I still have two! The A and D reference is about sizes! My mom had a total though so I am not put off by that at all. And yes trying to erase the experience is not my goal. I feel for your friends! Breast cancer risk increases exponentially in age. And radiation suxs.

I totally agree about bad posture. Ick, ick, and more ick! Stand up straight.

Bare fingernails? As in unpainted?

I agree with you on implants. My personal preference. I've had small breasts my whole life and I like them just fine -- and they are still in almost the EXACT position they were 30 years ago! Yay! My exception to my dislike of implants is for women whose breasts have been completely transformed by age, weight loss or illness. Then I support it. But, to simply have bigger ta-tas....ugh.... Just my opinion. There are still plenty of women I know and love who have them though.

@HippieChick58 I actually know plenty of men who do not like implants more or better than natural. Many.

Quote: @HippieChick58. It's a visual eye catcher... it's also trailer park guys that like that. I like an all natural lady. Natural beauty is awesome. Not all that make-up. Class turns me on.

@BucketlistBob I wear make-up -- but I strive for it to not be excessive. And, I think I'm pretty classy. Not fem-fem classy. But tomboy classy. 🙂

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Lying about the important stuff. Little white lies to prevent ruining someone's day are ok - lying on big issues? Nope.

I am right there with you -- well almost. I actually don't like little white lies either and always try to find an alternative to lying. Sometimes that means deflecting. I believe in Meaning What you Say and Saying What You Mean and I try to practice radical honestly. And, sometimes I choose to keep my mouth closed.

@BlueWave I have to admit keeping my mouth closed is a definite go to. However when someone asks me "How's my hair?" and they've had a knit cap welded to their head due to the weather? I tend to lie. It might be a New England Thing? Though I believe I did say "Like you have hat head." at least once. I was fairly certain they wanted an honest answer.

@RavenCT LOL!!! That's funny! See, I just don't think people should ask stuff like that. Just my opinion. 🙂

@BlueWave Does this make me look fat? OMG! Why? Why ask that! The horror! lol - But I also don't wear hats - well except for a few hattery hats - but not in a while. I have too damn much hair now to wear hats. It became curly after radiation and it just doesn't fit! Have never in my life asked "Does this make me look fat?". I might ask - "Is this straining at the seams?" but that's pertinent info.! lol And I can't see my own arse. Had a really embarrassing situation in third grade when someone dropped me a from a piggy back and my rear seam on my corduroy bell bottoms just let go, Frankly I'm pretty clear on what makes me look bad? lol

@RavenCT LOL!! Yup -- all that!

Yikes! How embarrassing! 🙂

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