When you are intimate with your significant other:
A: Are you vocal in some way? Maybe you are a Moaner. Perhaps you are a Talker who likes to express how you are feeling at that very moment. Maybe you are the dominate type who likes to give commands.
B: Are you completely silent or nearly Corpse like? Not vocal at all. Perhaps some lite to moderate elevated breathing.
Please tell me which describes you best!
Everybody appreciates hearing they're doing a good job, right? I do. <thumbs up> <wink>
I don't know... I remember someone telling me "that was half an hour ago... now you are giving me a headache."
What a choice, normal or corpse like... I choose life!
yes that was eye catching
@btroje Yup. I'm not a necrophiliac.
In the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fifth edition (DSM-5), recurrent, intense sexual interest in corpses can be diagnosed under Other Specified Paraphilic Disorder (necrophilia) when it causes marked distress or impairment in important areas of functioning.[17] A ten-tier classification of necrophilia exists:[18]
I am totally vocal with moans and soft talking. I like to fully immerse myself when being intimate with someone I feel close to. It's been quite awhile, so it's been pretty quiet. lol
well, i think you should use every sense and express yourself how you feel.
anyway a lot of it is gasps and moans etc spontanious
A Gentleman won't say or ask. Dad told me... "Never ask a question to a lady you are not willing to ask your mother".
Your Dad gave you good advice. Some things are best left as a mystery.
@Betty Dad was wise. Mystery is good. He also said... you tell them the truth always but you don't have to tell them all the whole truth.
@Stevil Nah... they are everywhere. And they are listening.
@Stevil My kid sister is manager there... and that is too much information already.
@Stevil She is my confessor. Plus I admit that I used her to get to the "girl" that became my wife. So she is an enabler and accomplice... couldn't get a better sister or more faithful winglady. Though there was a time she was telling everyone I was already spoken for.
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Nothing like this...lol.
LOL
How can anyone be silent? LOL.
I never make a sound, and get called out for it, but why bother, they would drown out any noise I make anyway. I always find woman make a lot of noise. We have a lot of people visit and stay, our surrounds are pretty decent, bloody visitors. Always hear the women, which can be disturbing enough, thankfully never hear the guys.
Just a tip for anyone who has loud lovemaking neighbors. Normally this ok in moderation but I have met quite a few where it becomes intolerable. So here is a possible solution;
Go find your best live album. Fast forward past the music to the very end. Wait till the couple next door has just finished their loud cavort and turn the volume up to 11. The applause and shouts of " MORE MORE " will generally get the mesage though.
I think there need to be a few more options. I'd be really put off by someone screaming in my ear but I think a totally silent partner gives you no feedback on whether you are pleasing them. So I like a bit of noise (giggling, moaning, grunting) when I'm hitting the right spot - but nothing artificial. I do the same back and I find that giving some affirmation and grunting/moaning when everything is going really well actually turns you both on more.
Sex is all about non-verbal communication. It's OK to talk do's and don'ts beforehand but after that words become superfluous.