It's been. week or so since I signed up on this, not sure what the point system is for but it doesn't seem to have taken me too long to reach level 5 for what ever that is worth.
But what are you here for? Dating? Find new friends? Meet people with similar religious/no-religious views? And how did you find it? A friend of mine pointed me here because we're both single.
"Yes," to the first three proffered answers, and I found this website when a Morehead University prof colleague posted the link on Facebook.
A bit of a laugh, in this fucked up world.
I don't know really. I think it all began with sex.
Would really like to find a guy. But most of the guys here are too far away. And I guess I'm too old for the ones who are nearby. I can hold my own on most topics. No kids, no cats and sweet as a goddamn angel. Lovely manners, well-spoken, and somewhat witty (at least by half). I would also like to find female (or male/gay) friends. I have no family.
I've been on POF, Zoosk, OKCupid (best dating site), and even a couple of "alt" sites (I can't believe the stuff I didn't know!).
Most atheists are much younger than I am. I do prefer younger people because I've missed most of the "passages" my generation of women went through - raising kids (god, that really ages a woman (mentally), worshipping (and babysitting) grandkids, etc.. And, if my FB page is accurate, cooking very fattening recipes (and sending photos) or absorbed with home decorating. So I really don't have much in common with them. They've been married forever; I try to talk to my best friend about sex, and she tells me she doesn't want to hear it; her life is "focused" elsewhere.
I should have divorced my husband 10 years earlier; I'd be a hell of a lot more marketable.
Why am I here? To interact with similar minded people and enlighten (or enrage) the inevitable subversive theists trolls that make their ways into this arena. In the real world I have de-converted a few theists including a minister and, aside from the despair of the minister (religion is his job), I greatly enjoyed making the lives of others more rational. As for dating and/or finding new friends? Would be nice but I'm not holding my breath. Ran across this site by an add on Facebook.
to comfort myself that there are people like me out there. not many mind you but they do seem to be around this site in numbers
You guys are the bomb. I have three new words for my dictionaryalready; and you don't care about anything; age . nationality, sexual proclivities. Makes for great community.
It's a blissful escape from Facebook. Here people actually think before posting.
It would be nice to meet local people to enlarge my circle fo friends. I am nto too cocerned about beign "single". I am happy. I don't need someone to feel "complete". If I do meet somone special it would enhance my life, but I don't need that to be happy.
Found it through the Facebook add. Like most everyone else I came for a dating app but stayed because the community rocks.
FB shot itself in the foot when it sent me here. Not that I had much to add to FB anyway...
I came for commiseration with other non-religious folk. I stayed for the opportunity to talk about the kinds of things that interest me, using the kind of language that's natural to me--without being told not to be so "intellectual", because "people won't understand".
I'd rather be the dumbest person in the room. This site is a much better fit in that regard.
If I have offended anyone with my comments just remember this is a place to really state what you feel without concern about being dispatched to the nether lands. Also if I have offended you, tough shit just deal with it.
I just moved to New Jersey from Texas. I am hoping to meet a few locals and generally have an online BS place.
I would say it's good for whatever you want. It's just a good site for meeting people from all over with different views and ideas and I learn from it. Sometimes it's good to just get your thoughts out there and not be judged for stating your opinion.
You guys are the bomb. I have three new words for my dictionaryalready; and you don't care about anything; age . nationality, sexual proclivities. Makes for great community.
You guys are the bomb. I have three new words for my dictionaryalready; and you don't care about anything; age . nationality, sexual proclivities. Makes for great community.
You guys are the bomb. I have three new words for my dictionaryalready; and you don't care about anything; age . nationality, sexual proclivities. Makes for great community.