Personally, I could use more spontaneity. I enjoy planning. I try to be strategic in what I do. But, sometimes it's nice to just go with the flow. I'm practicing.
Where do you fit on the spectrum of calculating to spontaneous?
I am borrowing here, but I calculate spontaneously. My stepdad says it is my biggest downfall. However you look at it I'm a good cop although not employed in that field. I'm currently into a local rape in my area that all happened because of drug activity and the cops cannot tell you that much already because they are still investigating it. I also did a secret investigation into my own grandson's murder. Many things were hidden there perhaps because he was a drug dealer. In turn he was betrayed by friends. Law enforcement never did anything about it and helped perpetuate a lie to shut it all down. Why? The killer was their own man playing both sides as a narc. To this day (2 years later) the killer walks free and claims he did not want to kill him. The big question is "then why did he?" The best answer is drugs and confusion.
Regardless of early theistic training I can claim that my inner calculating mind brought me to logic in such a way that I "woke up" and stopped following Christianity. Are there any claims of deity that are valid in this world? Not that I have found.
Did anyone fly to heaven on a winged horse? Do cats fly?
If I do make a plan, it's normaly just a rough plan, that I can change along the way, if need be.
I am not a planner, but can get things done on the fly pretty well, I listen to suggestions so I can get a bigger picture of possiblities. I don't enjoy entering any situation close minded, so I go in with an idea, but it is subject to change repeatedly
A vague outline to guide you. this will allow for that “oh wow! lets do this” moment!
i have an idea &, unlike in my young & impulsive age, i allow it to settle & simmer & shape for a while. then i follow with action that gives in to the natural flow of life. why else would i live where the mantra is "go with the flow"?
I am spontanious all the way then every day is a possible adventure though theres obviously things I have to plan.
The more prepared i am, the more comfortable i am going off-script. So its both. Bigtime both.
More calculating but my calculations are usually way off
Sponteneously me. If I am talking I am creating from my heart memory and intuitive. ...When I am listening I am skillfully measuring what I hear so that my conversation partner is understood with accurate feedback. ...your words as I summarize and encourage. ....my body language is athletic. ...dancing is my joy and singing is my interpretation of my source or sheet. ...I'm a percussionist scientist romantic politician