I didn't grow up with religion, to me, it's kind of a foreign concept. It's not something that I think about another person being, so sometimes I am surprised to find out someone is religious. I'm curious how other non believers experience their non belief.
My parents were raised in different religions (one Catholic and the other Baptist), though growing up they chose not to force my sister and I to choose any religion over the other but they did make us go to see the point of view and let us choose what we wanted.
Though I chose neither I'm glad they gave me an option since I read about other people not being so fortunate.
Eastern Orthdox Church--seldom went to church though.
I'm with you ... so nope, I was fortunate enough to have been born of parents both possessing genes advanced enough to allow their progeny to live free of superstition. Occasionally lonesome, often on the outside, but in the end, having experienced life to it’s fullest
I did. Methodist Church. I realized it was all nonsense at age 12, but they had great activities: Canoe trips, camping trips, parties, sports nights, etc. for the kids, so I stuck with it until age 18. After I left for college, that was the end of it for me.
That's how they get you, ha ha. So sneaky! I remember a friend saying to me one time "hey, want to watch a movie and eat pizza with me on Wed?" I was like "sure!" She said "ok, it's at my church!" I was roped in! I was like, "oh... ok... see you there..." I was nice enough not to back out. It was the worst propaganda movie ever. I was in 8th grade and knew it was BS.
I grew up in the UK - a very secular and non religious sort of society - being religious was viewed as being rather 'odd' or eccentric.
me too.
@jacpod The irony is that I was born here in NZ and raised in Newcastle - my mother was Jewish from Poland there was a real reluctance to get me involved in anything to do with her ethnicity and what had happened during WWII - I was born twenty years after the end of the war and memories of that time were still very fresh.
No. I'm one of the lucky ones. We had to learn about it at school though.
Raised Lutheran, did Sunday School and Confirmation and all that. When I was a kid I went along with it gamely enough, but sometime in high school I stopped going. My parents thought it was just because I didn't want to get up early on a Sunday morning and I let them think that rather than argue with them about my lack of faith.
Yes, but it didn't grow up with me. In fact I outgrew it even before it had a chance to grow on me. I could say I never looked back but there was nothing ever to look back on.
I think it's interesting who some of us never "caught on." I remember my aunt taking my brother and I a few times and I didn't get it at all. Never did I think it could be real. I didn't really understand what it was all about. And I remember very early on rejecting the idea of someone going to hell because they were different than you.
I guess that I was lucky with this. My dad was a Mormon and my mom wasn't religious, but I think that she believes in something. My dad never really talked to us about religion (that I can remember). I do remember trying to force myself to believe in it because the thought of Hell scared me. I would go to church with my half sister or even friends, but I would always have to fight not to laugh or roll my eyes. My grandma in Utah would always try to force it down my throat when I saw her, but that wasn't often.
My favorite thing is when believers ask me if I am afraid to not be admitted into heaven, I always tell them, "just because I have read Harry Potter, doesn't mean that I am expecting my Hogwarts letter." They don't like that very much.
ha ha, yes! By the way, I didn't see a Harry Potter group on here yet!
Yes I did. If I know what I know now. It would of save me a lot brainwashing that was put in my head. Shame on Christian for brainwashing people on something that they can't prove. Shame on me for believing these people.
Don’t blame yourself. Religion is mastered with fear.
I lived out in the country and a bus came by my house on Sundays and picked my sister and me up and took us to Church. But, for some unknown reason to me even now...I felt out of place. I thought something was not quiet right! Ofcourse, I would have been shamed into next Sunday, had I ever shared my thinking, back then. It was not until my 30s that I really could take a stand for what was not right to my way of thinking. Over, the years my dissatisfaction grew and soon I felt like a whole person...without religion or a man made God!
I remember my aunt taking my brother and I a few times (my parents never went, but wanted us to decide for ourselves which I am grateful for) and feeling the same way, just out of place. I thought it was strange and boring and just stories. I never thought it was real. I remember praying to Jesus to ask forgiveness for taking a cookie one night and thinking "this is stupid, what am I doing?" I think I was in early elementary school.
@Remi I bet there are many such stories...instead of reinforceing our nature, we were led down a rabbet hole, lol.