i have a thought and i wanna share it
shouldnt the woman be the one who bends down on one knee to ask for marriage?
women are the gatekeepers to sex and men are the gatekeepers to relationships
arent the men the providers and so many etc etc right
what does the woman bring to the marriage?
u said sex right well i heard it doesnt get better after the hitch
o and ill leave it with this
familiarity breeds contempt
think of all the ways the woman can destroy the man
Women must get respect and cannot be subordinated, no doubt about.
However, it is true that women in all societies including in advanced Western societies have one of these dependencies on men..... "emotional, financial, security, companionship, laborious work". Some have one while others have more. A few exceptions does not change what is more commonly true.
However, it is not a bad thing. The majority of men who respect women as sisters, mothers, and wives and enjoy who they and what they do. But often each society has existing conditions that men and women try to fit in. Defying that often makes life difficult. I have a personal experience in the family. My overseas educated, well travel, polyglot sister defied customs and traditions in India and she was left alone. She decided to not marry because she hated arranged marriages (it was 40 years ago). It is not that she was bothered by anyone. She was just excluded from the common fabric of the culture.
The post has a sexist tone but the sexist lines are drawn by where you live, what society you live in. I came to Texas in 2006 and was told that women government employees who worked there were not allowed to use the phone at work until in 1985. At this time, 5 countries in the world had women heads of state.
We all want equality, we have sisters and daughters and mothers. I have a daughter and I want all the equality for her but know although she can succeed over men academically, financially and career wise there are real things like the glass ceiling, women's security threats in... yes in none other than the country called the US of A.
I agree with so much of what you say except I made him a rich man, I asked him to wed to cover our asses on a legal/financial basis (the gov't rewards marriage- our families are toxic)), he could have sex with any one but me, I brought him everything he wanted.....except for that, no sex after the hitch as it is then a business arrangement only, & I'll leave you with this. Separate houses. I bought him his own.
There are an estimated 100,000,000 missing women in the world due to infanticide/gendercide. That should please you. I think of all the ways..........