If you are, why do you think that is?
I find people to try my patience. I prefer to not be around them as I might just say something that would not be either kind or helpful.
Also, and maybe more of the reason, I think I am just too much for most people. I am strongly opinionated, loud, foul mouthed, outgoing (pushing the limits), adventurious (always ready to change things up), and just don't want to take crap from people. I believe this is more common for women of a certain age. And part of the reason I have not been able to secure a good job.
And maybe just a tad bit insecure and worried what others think or feel about me. I keep a buffer.
What are your reasons.?