It doesn't matter if women know what they enjoy if their partner has no clue and is only interested in pleasing himself and just assumes the woman will take care of herself the same as he is doing.

That is what they say. My experience is every man and woman has a particular preference and all women don't like the exact same thing.. some may like harder or rougher or softer and I have found men like variations from each other too. If women knew what other women liked it would imply its the same which would make it as easy for men to figure out. Not saying I am rihht...kust my experience.

OUCH!

I got to agree with you!!

@sealybobo I will try to answer that!
I’m bisexual, so sometimes I want the D: it’s so different, and can be good. The D only has one angle, though. It’s straight, pretty much.
I’ve not done much sissoring; fingers are better. The advantage of fingers versus the D is that fingers curl/bend; also, one can choose the number of fingers while the D is what it is.
Hope that enlightens the quandary!

Spot on.

@Sealybobo which straight girls?

@Sealybobo tell em to curl their lips in over their teeth...or get smarter girls?

You go girl.

That's my type of answer. I don't believe in god or studies.

I bet that is the most asked question...do you see kangaroos or did you ever meet the Alligater Hunter?

snickers

And you let this guy go?

mtnhome, as an artist, he was consumed with carving giant pumpkins and ice sculptures. No time for a relationship.

@Stevil LMFAO!!!

I agree with you.

if you can orgasm alone.....teach your partner your needs. if you cannot see a doctor.

I am so sorry if I hurt anyone. It is a shame what the genders don't know about each other's bodies. I am I guess genetically programmed that I will figure something out. If it helps I was a elec control/automation engineer. I am very made up to solve problems. Even before I went to college. My husband and I married at 18. We were kids raising 2 girls. It made our relationship hell for us both. He came from more money than I although my family didn't suffer. My ex never learned to do anything and I had 2 parents who would work together to fix anything. They never fought the fixed. My ex would torque a spark plug down to tight and break it off. I use to take the girls and go visit someone. After divorced, I had a car I changed the plugs in, gapped them, checked firing order and replaced all new wiring. I guess you could say married 1965-divorced 1985. We had a great sex life, but he never knew the work I put into studying and I would get online and flat out take polls of women and men and asked sexual questions. I basically found that the fault lies with both sexes. They are ignorant of what the other is or isn't getting. I don't fault men. That g-spot is so close to the entrance it doesn't take a lot of inches to get her there. It is just difficult to discuss. This is the most I have ever said and I only sharing it with no fault on either gender and it is not easy for me to write this. If I help someone enjoy something more, it will be worth it. Please no one blame the other. There should be classes you can attend I guess.

@honesty411 I have the most sensual, mind blowing sex there i when I am in love. If they don't know what they are doing, the pillow makes it possible for you to always orgasm. In other words I am capable of getting satisfaction and using a man just like they do women on a one night stand. Since sex is a spiritual connection with my partner,n I do without unless I have deep feelings. I respect men just like they should respect me.

@BettyColeman Your approach with the pillow sounds like something an engineer would think of. The normal position does not provide the proper angle, so that was very clever of you. However, it is my understanding that there are important anatomical variations between women, so your approach may not work for everyone. Also, G-spot stimulation makes some women feel as if they are about to pee, and they have considerable trouble going with the feeling. By analogy, some guys don't like their prostates stimulated during sex, although the orgasms are indeed much more powerful. Finally, do not underestimate the role of the brain in sex...people are more orgasmic when fully aroused, and most of this begins in the brain (not that touching other places can't help this along...)

@Sealybobo No offense, but unless you're there, you don't get to know that.

@Sealybobo

@Sealybobo How would I know? Everyone is different.

@Sealybobo I don't understand your comment.

Well, I'm just saying I don't necessarily believe the study.

@marga I've seen more than 5 studies that have consistent stats. I love sexual psychology, definitely a passion.

@SensualAva Sorry, I still don't believe.

I've met ONE guy who knew what he was doing...out of many. Starting to get very curious about the "other team".

@ReadyforaChange I am not a hoe. I have been celibate for 20 years, but a virgin when married. I remember a song Patty Page sang Is That All There Is. I was determined to have great sex. I talked it over with a male relative. He recommended the pillow. I divorced in 1985 and had some what I thought were love relationships and gave in on a couple I dated a while. Some guys bout 2, ask me if I wanted a pillow. I had to ask others.I talked to women too. Most told guys they climaxed, but they pretended. Many guys don't know how they are not getting it right. Look up the Kama Sutra. Find the G-spot. That is what is erotic and when stroked a few times, you will orgasm internally. I cannot believe I am telling this on the internet. I am blushing. But this is the truth.

@BettyColeman Actually Betty, I am fine on my own. I have always said I can do more for myself in less time, with less mess, than any man I have ever known...and that is the truth!

@ReadyforaChange I can trance like self hypnotist, think of that g-spot and in a couple min off I go. It comes in handy.

As someone whos given women multiple orgasms and no complaints. Im happy with where i stand. Just sayin. ^_^

You then have to average it out. Ya they'll have more as a whole but less per vagina.

@Holyhellkel Got it. The fact is that the sample of lesbians was so tiny that it makes me wonder about the whole study. And because the hetero women sample was so much higher and the response was that 65 percent of the time they achieve orgasm when having sex with their partners, it seems to me that they are having orgasms with some reliability. Heck, an all star batting champion gets to hit only one out of every three times at bat. Remember also that the original question was “who is more likely to orgasm during sex with sexual-partner?” I asume that hetero women’s likelihood of orgasming increases when they take matters into their own hands.

@Holyhellkel Why less per vagina? That's my favorite way.

@Parzival Here’s something that should be very clear: sexual orientation and orgasms are separate things. I’m heterosexual. As a result, I will decline any invitation to have sex with another gentleman even if I’m guaranteed tons of orgasms. When it comes to a lady who likes me and who I like ... well, do I need to say it? Who needs a guarantee?

@ArturoS im well aware of the difference between orientation and orgasms. But EVERY man should know

1. What a clitoris is and where it's at.

2. Where the g-spot is located.

3. How to cut your nails and why.

4. Proper grooming

5. How to talk and communicate with your lover, partner, sig-o, etc.

@Parzival why are you Standing?!?!

@AnneWimsey I'm not. Im laying in bed. ^_^

Certainly some of us are not the best listeners but, proper smack on the head may help us to snap out of it???

I'm not really the violent type.

@Nottheonlyone you don't have to be. But you do need to talk. Guys arent mind readers, and arent that great with body language either.

@Parzival I'd say I'm personally quite open, honest, and vocal.