As someone who was born in Kentucky, lived there until I was six (we moved to Ohio), and realized I was an atheist by thirteen I want you to know it is not a land of all hillbillies. My father was born and raised in Kentucky and my mother in Cincinnati. They met and married after WW2. My father was an Army combat veteran. We did not go to church. There was no bible in the house, and no blessings before dinner. My Father's family most from Kentucky and now living in Ohio were church goers, but did not talk about it all the time. There was a living to be made. I have pleasant memories of summers spent at my grandparents rural Ohio farm. I loved roaming through the woods with an uncle who was 5 years older than me. Wild cherries, raspberries, and blackberries free for the picking. We did not talk about religion. Every Christmas Eve was a big family reunion. It was great. I did not hear any talk of Jesus. As a child I sat and listened. No one ever said I should not hear this, it's not for kids. I learned a lot. Back at our home for Christmas day. We opened gifts and had my mom's great turkey dinner. Turkey was a treat for us. Just four of us. NO church.
For those who deem it necessary to mock these people because of your misconceptions of them during this time of tragedy (tornado) I feel sorry for your lack of empathy.
Natural disasters are nonpartisan, and indiscriminate as to who they wreak death and destruction on. I don't wish them upon any country or administrative province.
Natural disasters and pandemics aren’t nonpartisan to republicans when blue states are hit. I’m sorry it didn’t flatten the entire state, and not sorry that it hit the state responsible for getting us, through their Senator, the Catholic supreme court that’s going to cause untold and unnecessary suffering and misery to more Americans, especially women and POC. I wish I believed in some all powerful being so I could believe they’re being punished. As it is, they are just being punished for the climate change they don’t believe in.
@Killtheskyfairy Oh! But the recent rash of tornados didn't care whether you were male, female, POC, GOP, red state, blue state, Catholic, or pagan. So they ARE nonpartisan. And wreak death and destruction on whoever is in their path!
@davknight it didn’t care when Mother Nature hit New Jersey but red states said NJ should go hang. Votes for US senators are state wide so very evil Kentuckian who voted for McConnell and Rand can eat shit and die.
Aww! Poor little Kentucky, the state that has given the rest of us 36 years of the monster, Mitch McConnell and over 10 years of rotten Rand Paul while taking more federal money than they contribute should suck it up and pull themselves up by the bootstraps like they think the rest of the country should do based on their voting records, actions, and the words of their state wide elected officials. Where is the misconception? It’s sad that there is a lack of accountability and responsibility from a state that denied global warming which now has to reap the literal whirlwind of their choices. Now they want more help and money?? Fuck them! These are the people who thought Covid didn’t matter because it was mostly hitting blue states, the states that have been supporting their asses for decades.
I worked for a company that had US headquarters in the Kentucky side of the Cincinnati area. I had to go between there and Iowa and it was hard to decide which bunch were the bigger, nastier, right wing assholes. One Kentucky coworker upon hearing I was born and raised in the Chicago area, said my town was a hellhole of crime and evil (with no self awareness at all of Kentucky crime statistics) and I must have some of that character in my family. This was a guy who was proud to have danced with snakes and spoken in tongues! To describe my extreme schadenfreude as lack of empathy is hilarious. I’m only sorry the entire state wasn’t flattened.
It is sad when an entire state is white washed as the same. But it is where we are in this country now. People actually refusing to feel empathy for a red state or a blue state... America has learned to Hate each other again.
Our parents were largely factory workers, from the South, who had moved to Detroit in the 1950s. We weren't conscious of being "Appalachians" until sociologists began calling us that. To which, our dads would respond with "Appawhoosians? Appawhatshuns? You calling me names boy?"
Like you I was also raised secular, though here in the UK that is not so unusual. Sadly though it meant that in my early years I knew little of Christians, so that I grew up believing that people who preached such unselfish ideals must be really good people. I think that the shock when I reached higher education and really met some, and discovered the reality, is a big fuel for my anti-theism.
Yet I still live in a rural village, where a higher proportion of my neighbours are nominally Christian than is the norm for the UK. So that I can not wish them, many good people, harm. I even give them a free Christmas tree for the village square each year. (Though I do call it the Yule tree, but don't think they notice.)
My childhood in Michigan was much the same, not much for consumerism (we were too poor) and big on loving interaction, even in our smallish extended family. My BFF of 54 years was from a holler in eastern Kentucky coal country, Betsy Layne, just a wide spot in the road, really. I visited there later in life and it was very much the Appalachian stereotype.
I was born in Harlan County and you can't get much more "hillbilly" than that. I am proud of my Kentucky and Appalachian heritage.
Which part are you proud of? The ignorance, incest, poverty or violence? I’m proud of my hillbilly ancestors who said fuck this shit, we’re moving to Chicago where we can get good jobs, our kids can get good educations and we can drive on paved roads and live in nice houses with electricity and indoor plumbing.
I am a country hick from Iowa. I hate stereotypes. My parents were both Christians, only one of us kids is. None of the rest of us said anything and here I am, 60 and only learned a few years ago, that my other brother, his wife, kids, grandkids are all also Atheists.
My Mom was born in the hills of Virginia. Her first marriage was at 13. She wasn't "educated," but pretty bright and a constant reader. We never did church. As an adult, I asked her once why she didn't raise us as Southern Baptist like much of her family. Her exact response was, "I didn't want to inflict that on you."
Good for her. She sounds more educated than not
I haven't heard anyone saying anything negative about this tragedy. I usually think Floridians get all the heavy duty storms, so when it happens to someone else, I feel immense empathy, because I know what they're going through. So sad.