I told one "if the only reason you aren't committing murder is your imaginary being, then you're not someone I want to be spending time with."

He is just hunting by sight, so to speak. He thinks you are attractive, nothing more.

Spirituality is a mixed bag that can run a pretty wide range. For some it's a term for quantum entanglement connectivity of things ... how about worshipping rats....but for most it's a big building, a bunch of mindless rumination and a lot of cash ( with rampant publicly excused pedophilia).
Makes you wonder why someone would not want to discuss something they deem important.

I tell you what.
Fancy moving to north east Scotland? (we've got a National Health Service, free at the point of need)
We could spend Sundays not going to church and instead wonder at the universe and I can tell you that my late wife is tree fertilizer then we could get spiritual with whisky, gin or rum!
I'm still not going to show a picture of my naked bum though!

When I chat with women about spirituality, I tend to say, "I won't judge you. If our worldviews are not very close, I at least want you to accept me as I am and not change me."

The phrase "meant to be" implies intent from a "higher power". We would never say that about gravity - gravity works without intent.

The phrase "Spiritual but not religious" also makes me curious.

You tell them girl.

And when asked, "How many hearts have you broken?" You reply, "How much time do you have?"

I'm so spiritual, my shoes melt when I walk
I'm so spiritual, my underwear goes up the crack of my butt
I'm so spiritual, I get wet when it rains.
I'm so spiritual, my pom poms get me high

You’re quite the temptress, leaving the trail littered with disappointed Christians

Heck if I know. I used to ask them what “Christian -Other” meant. Never got an answer. Did you ever notice that if you ask three or more questions, they will never answer more than two, but usually answer only one, if any?