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Is it better to legalize prostitution or keep it illegal

I find prostitution to be distasteful, but I think it is better for the health of society to make it legal.

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paul1967 8 May 2
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Obviously

nezer Level 4 May 23, 2018
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Prostitution should definitely be legal and regulated. Many people are wanting without an involved relationship. Maybe it would reduce our very rate of rape in US. With that must come healthcare for all. Sexworkers must have access to regular healthcare.

Rape, as opposed to statutory rape, is most often not an act of sex. It is an act of dominance and power where sex is the weapon or means of showing dominance or power.

@Rob1948 Not all sexual crime is about power some rape is about a testosterone-fueled kid wanting to get laid. Another subset could be those people who are too shy and awkward to find a girlfriend. I do agree that the vast majority of sex crimes are as you described but my point is not all are, other sexual reasons are behind rape.

@paul1967 I did not address sex crimes other than rape and I excluded statutory rape... which would cover your example of a testosterone-fueled kid, in many incidences. Nor did I say rape is never a sexual act...

@Rob1948 I agree you didn't and the only reason I brought those topics to the table was because I felt @emmagoldman had those types of rapes in mind. I meant no disrespect towards you. What you said was absolutely valid.

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If there is someone providing a service, and someone willing to pay for that service, I think a free market economy should allow it.

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All relationships are transactional. People trade sex for power, money, influence, security, ego and, in the best situations, for genuine love. Love makes sex much more intimate and enjoyable. Prostitution is facilitated masturbation.

To my way of thinking, Melania Trump sold her body to a disgusting old bastard incapable of loyalty or honestly. Yeah, she did it for money.

Should prostitution be legal? Why not?

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Distasteful ... I guess this term can easily be applied to many situations. I am pretty sure that the vast majority of meat eaters would describe the atmosphere in a slaughterhouse as distasteful. The effects of war are distasteful as is the situation of millions of people around the world who barely survive scouring through piles of garbage. Many job are distasteful.
As I child I felt anally violated, and literally was, when my mother pushed a suppository up my tiny butthole. Luckily I was usually anally retentive enough to keep it. Well it was for health reasons.
Just the way you think of the distasteful activity of prostitution.
Honestly I am baffled by this juxtaposition.
I know of many jobs that are even more "distasteful" than prostituion. Actually every paid work is a form of prostituion. Why does it matter so much what part of one's body one uses to generate an income?
Increasingly the states rely on mercenaries to do the dirty killing on their behalf ... That is not just distasteful but frankly disgusting.

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It is an honorable profession & making it legal will provide proper health care for everyone. There needs to be a red light district for everyones safety too. It becomes a job with taxes that are a part of the system.

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Exploitation of another human being, as in a pimp exploiting women, is extremely distasteful. Sexual exploitation of minors is distastefuly criminal and it should have a sentence of 25 to life for every count (I don’t favor the death penalty). But if we are talking about two perfectly consenting adults, then it should be perfectly legal. Illegality is one element that allows pimps to exploit women. Now, I know this will bring me the wrath of many, but here it is: since women withhold sex from men as some sort of weapon or bargaining chip, women will be the ones most opposed to legalizing the exchange of sex for something of material value. And of course there will be the argument of the dignity. That is a question that can only be answered by the parts involved. Additionally, the legal exchange of sex for something of material value already exists covertly, and here is the proof: can any heterosexual male reading this deny that access to sex with a woman always involves some cost?

@Fanburger Exactly, and in that situation she would be vulnerable to be exploited in many settings, even simple labor situations or in relationships with members of her family and other adults in her social life. She would not be a consenting adult in any of those situations. So, your answer seems to give strength to the idea that exchange of sex for anything of value would be perfectly ok if the consenting question is cleared or resolved.

@Fanburger are any poor people consenting to becoming garbage collectors or coal miners?

@Fanburger are any poor people consenting to becoming garbage collectors or coal miners?

Yes, you are correct , sex always involves some cost . Serial murders , often choose prostitutes as victims , because they're people unlikely to be missed . Male serial murders outnumber female serial murders 6:1 . I have yet to hear of any man , who was raped by a woman , who got him pregnant . While men are congradulated for getting lucky , young women are still shamed for it . And yet , if a woman refuses to have sex with a man , he immediately labels her as being a slut , then broadcasts it to their social pool . If a woman is drugged and raped , and she reports it , in this country , they take her to a hospital for a rape kit , which is again invasive , embarrising , and more often than not immediately shelved . In some foreign countries , a woman who was raped , is sentenced to death by stoning , for having sex outside of marriage . If she survives a rape , and becomes pregnant , she then has to make some serious choices . 1. Will she abort the fetus (costly . guilt , shame) . 2. Will she have the child and put it up for adoption ( frequent doctor appointments , medications , morning sickness , time off from work , time off work for the delivery period , recovery period , possible loss of job altogether , deciding whether to give up a child for adoption or to keep the child . Cost of orphanages or foster care until (if) child is adopted . IF she decides to keep the child , then clothing , furniture , medical care , child care when she returns to work (2015 census reports it now costs over $250,000 to raise a child ) . So yes , you are correct . Sex does indeed cost money . More often than not , it costs a woman , many times more than the tiny amount a man invests in it .

Are any poor people consenting to becoming garbage collectors or coal miners?

@PontifexMarximus or go into the military or into gangs and all those other things people go for desperation?

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In parts of Europe (Germany) it is legal and the workers come under the government. They get benefits and retirement. I remember a case where a new house opened and the old house sued. The judge said there was plenty of business for everyone and threw the case out.

Even in Australia prostitution is legal, though regulated under state law.

@LetzGetReal We are the prudes of the world (except for the Middle East). And we owe it all to...religion!!

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I am a retired nurse with a business degree, well educated and have a beautiful home. I am divorced.
I choose to do what I do because I enjoy meeting men that lie about me not to me.
I also enjoy helping men understand their sexuality from a nurses prospective. The money is great.
I would love to be legal but not regulated, I know that is asking for to much!!!

I swear this isn't me trying to be insensitive or rude I'm just confused are you a sex therapist or an escort? I know you said you're a nurse but I got a little confused towards the end.

@paul1967 @Sunshinegardener is a retired nurse. She never said she was a therapist. She explained why she enjoys doing what she does and what she likes about it, and that she likes the money. You swear it is not you trying to be insensitive or rude, but I would suggest you to try some other way because you came across as insensitive and rude.

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I personally believe that this is also a victim-less crime as long as the woman makes her own decision to engage in it and is properly compensated. This is another choice issue for women. Now forced prostitution and violent pimps who keep most of the money should be illegal. But I don't see any difference between a woman providing this service in exchange for money than "prostituting" herself for 70% (or less) of what a man gets paid for any other kind of job.

Very well put. I also wonder what is the difference between “prostituing” and wanting a diamond ring, a big house, an SUV, yoga clases, clothes, food, traveling and who knows what else, to be your exclusive woman in bed.

@Rodatheist What about love?

@Emmagoldman What about love? One can love without sex and there is plenty of pleasure without love. The two don't have to be connected.

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Anything illegal is susceptible to crime. The "war on drugs" is a great example of how illegality has corrupted enforcers, endangered the general population, and increased the supply and cost.
People want to fuck without commitment. How is that wrong?
Currently human-trafficking is mostly about sex.
Law enforcers should be focused on those activities that really are the most immoral. Taking drugs, having sex,... are not immoral, just illegal.
Driving while intoxicated is immoral. Abducting girls for sex and for forced marriage is immoral.

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Like anything else, illegalizing something (like drugs) only brings in the criminal element, and makes it more difficult if not impossible to aid those ordinary people who get caught up in it.

godef Level 7 May 3, 2018

Of course, then you have to start insuring things and thus you bring in the insurance industry to make things more expensive than ever.

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It’s been around forever and we’re not going to stop it so why should it be illegal. What 2 consenting adults do when it comes to sex shouldn’t be any of the governments bussiness.

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I would be in favour of making prostitution legal in order to be able to impose controls, for the moment. Broadly speaking I am against prostitution because I think very few of the women (and male prostitutes too) who are involved are doing it because they want to. Many prostitutes have been trafficked for that purpose and lead terrible lives. Many others are driven into it by poverty. I agree with the person below who suggested that if we could eradicate poverty, we would find that there were very few prostitutes remaining.

I think you're both right, but poverty is built into the system. I can't imagine a capitalistic society where poverty is a thing of the past. The system requires a large service class willing to flip the hamburgers, pick the cotton fields, clean the house and wash the dishes. Maybe, I'm wrong, but this has always been my belief/conspiracy theory as to why our education system is such a joke.

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Prostitution has long been commonly referred to as the oldest profession in the world. No culture, religion, or government entity has been able to eradicate it. Legalizing the sex-trade would put in regulations and safeguards to reduce abuse and the spread of disease. Legalizing would free up resources and allow law enforcement to concentrate on child sex-exploitation.

I’m afraid there will always be a criminal element in the sex-trade industry. Legalizing it may at least keep it at a more controllable level.

The porn industry has grown with the introduction of the Internet. Escort services and Sugar Baby sites have exploded. Nudity and sex in the movie industry are commonplace. Sex is not the taboo subject it once was with booty calls and friends with benefits, is it any wonder that sex has become a commodity.

When it is possible to make more money in an evening than working a "legit" job for a month it becomes easy to understand that it is a viable option for some. College and University students carrying heave debt with limited job/career options can easily be persuaded to consider prostitution as an option.

Betty Level 8 May 3, 2018

Very well stated, and I agree.

@SpikeTalon

Thank you. 🙂

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Legalise.

Coldo Level 8 May 3, 2018
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I just can't support it. I don't like the idea of sex in any form. Something about prostitution seems wrong. The idea of a man buying a woman's body as if it were a commodity, it's too much.

In any form?

So keep it illegal, because it makes you uncomfortable? Something about prostitution seems wrong because it is wrong, but keeping it illegal doesn't mean it is not happening it means criminals get to profit from it. The spread of disease, sex slavery, and lives in ruin are only a handful of the net result keeping it illegal. I don't mind you voting against it, but I would think that you might want to consider some of the benefits of having it regulated by the government as opposed to regulated by the pimps and sex traffickers.

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The oldest living profession has and will always be around. Europe does very nicely with it and the crime rate is way down as far as sex crimes and other pent up episodes. I know some people who refer to Marriage as being legal prostitution. I always liked the expression "He doesn't get laid, he gets fucked." Think about it.

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If someone wishes to be a prostitute, then I don't see why they shouldn't be allowed to. However, I do think that there should be some laws put into place to protect those involved, for instance, mandatory use of protection and frequent std testing. I also think it is important to make sure they are not being forced into it.

All good points

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No Vote, a tough, toxic subject. Is prostitution needed? Eliminate the pimp and I will consider. No user and I did 20 years in the Navy. My concern/question is purpose.

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Correct choice: decriminalize

Forgive my ignorance, but what is the distinction between decriminalizing and legalize. You're the third person to say that, and I'm sure there is a distinction, but for the life of me I can't figure it out.

@paul1967 To me, the distinction between legalize and decriminalize is the regulation aspect. Legalize marijuana? How tightly regulated is the production and distribution? Decriminalize it? "well, but it's still not 'decriminalized'- Moral legal people just Wouldn't, would they? So, why regulate? Regulations, (and legalization) happens when abuses happen.

@paul1967 Look up the Legal Definition of Business Transaction. I'm sure the term Mutual Agreement would make the case. Then call your local Congressional Representative who thinks he can get it any time he wants and not have to pay for it.

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Keep it illlegal. That way prostitution would never happen.

That is a little naive - isn't it?

@DerekD No. Just like drugs. Keeping them illegal means that nobody will do drugs.

@indirect76 ??? exactly

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The correct answer is: decriminalization. It's not sufficient to 'make it legal' or to make it partially legal.

Hmm, there is a good TED talk about this:

[npr.org]

This goes into a couple of issues related to stigma, prostitution being one of them and it's a fascinating... er... read(?) which covers the issues very well. Prostitution being one of them and the gal who is interviewed does an amazing job of covering the ins and outs of the different forms of handling prostitution from a 'legal' point of view. And the consequences, who is really harmed, from each one.

Also, there is an Adam Ruins everything that adds to interesting historical insight into Prostitution and it's effects (when legal) on society and it's rather surprising... or not, if you are a misogynist.

There, happy researching. 🙂

Here's the podcast with Jan Mackell Collins who studied prostitution in the 19th Century American West and it's affects on society therein. Really interesting stuff and rather (to me) ironic.

[player.fm]

@Gnarloc That was incredibly informative. I had absolutely no idea, but that makes perfect sense. It wasn't in any of my grade school history books, and if it had, I probably would have gotten a better grade. Thank you for sharing that with me.

@LetzGetReal A good research question would be the presence of disease in brothels through the ages (including convents, as there is some evidence the church used them as a sort of brothel). I say this because some of the diseases that you and I know of, and now associate with STDs, were not known, or as prevalent, back in the day... or at least some of the reading I have done suggests that being 'loose' wasn't as much of an issue, back when.

I became an adult in the '80s and fully realize that I dodged the HIV bullet... but, how prevalent was it really at the time? Ie: I had several partners and wasn't very 'safe' but didn't get sick...so, how prevalent were STDs, and specifically HIV, back then?

Again: Good research question!

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Prostitution is legal in areas of Nevada. Also has a trade in Amsterdam as well. In Nevada, this allows protection of both the lady and her client. In terms of disease, assault, etc. When we make this illegal, we push this trade into the hands of those who care about neither. Making prostitution like drugs illegal hasn't ended the illegal trade. It just punishes those who seek it out or participate in it on both sides. Individual morality is a choice and isnt a crime just because it may differ from anothers.

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