What turns you on to a person? What are your turn off?
Turn on: Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, compassion, tolerance, caring, personality, charm. Turn offs: Bigotry, racism, intolerance, unkindness, impatience, poor personal hygiene. I had a date last summer with a good looking dude. As soon as he told me how much he liked DT, how he was a good business man, he became the ugliest man I'd ever met. Beauty is skin deep but ugly goes all the way to the bone.
Integrity, kindness, confidence, heart, vulnerability, someone who understands my humor as much as I understand his, someone who "gets" me and has my back, someone who appreciates me and makes me feel safe to be myself. And oh yeah, someone whose clothes I want to tear off.