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Do you like for people to remember or celebrate your birthday or is it just another ordinary day?

EmeraldJewel 7 May 24
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just another day

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Nah, it doesn't mean anything to me.

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Just another day really, but it could be the last so I don't mind well wishes.

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Mine means nothing anymore. My son’s is everything.

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I think my birthday should be a a national holiday. 😉 I didn't travel 584 million miles (around the sun) for nuttin'.

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Everyday is an ordinary day. You need a calendar to assert that any of them are special.

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Who wants to celebrate growing old and approaching ones certain demise?

Ikr! Half the time I’m hoping people forget so I don’t have to be reminded.

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It used to be really important to me. Now it's more important to my daughter as I always book the day off work so we can do some fun things together.

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For me,just another day,no family or wife now to celebrate with,no special diners or other activities,days crossed off the calendar.....

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I haven't celebrated my birthday or any holiday in years. In this day and age with income inequality and poverty and shit I cannot justify making the people in my life feel obligated to spend money they don't have on me just because my parents made a mistake. I mean really. Humans as a whole are a cancer to this earth. Celebrating the birth of them seems crazy honestly.

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I don't make a big deal about it. Nice to be remembered but not necessary. I've found to have little to no expectation, and then I'm happy with the outcome.

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Ha
At my age, another successful journey around the sun calls for opening a good bottle of zinfandel with the wife.

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Not that important

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No big deal. That I have survived 79 of them was great.

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No big deal. That I have survived 79 of them was great.

Your 79?

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Naw! Im ok with not having a party. Those days are gone.

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When I was growing up I liked my birthday more than any holidays. Even though my birthday is just weeks before Christmas it was MY day. It was the only day I really felt that people saw me -- I felt pretty invisible most of the rest of the time.
This year, when I turn 70, I am having a decadent party for a small group of friends at a restaurant with an open bar and me paying for everything. Their presents to me will consist only of sharing the evening with me and emailing me a memory of us together that I can put into a scrapbook. I'll still celebrate after this one, but this is the big blowout. I'm even making people dance!!

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When you get to a certain age another birthday is just another day but it is nice that my children always remember and make a fuss that I have hung around for another year I also appreciate the after shave chocolates sox and jocks that come my way.

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I celebrate my kids birthdays, but mine where not great growing up so I learned to hate the day. I get irritated every year when my mother remembers to call me to wish me a happy birthday... I let my kids and husband tell me, but that's about it.

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It's another day to me.

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It's just another insignificant day to me.

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I am more concern with being here for the next several ones.

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