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I was never brought up with any religion as a kid, so I was never a believer. But I've been living in a mostly Christian area for the last decade or so. I do have some friends that are believers, but we get along great, we just never bring up our beliefs to each other.Problem is that most others judge me as a horrible person, and that I'm going to hell, how can I have morals with out god. etc. I saw this site, and thought it would be great to be at a place where I can chat with others that have the same thoughts about god and religion.
I've been told that I have a big heart. I don't know if it's true or not but i try to do what I can to help others.
I also have a great sense of humor, and I like being around others that do as well.

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What inspires you to follow a member's posts on Agnostic.com?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 14, 2018:
I didn't know that there was an option to follow anothers posts.
Okay, fairly obvious...
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 14, 2018:
there was another one I saw like that I posted a while back.
In Honor of Hump Day, I give you the Humpty Dance - Digital Underground [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 15, 2018:
Oh, man, I forgot about this one. They used to play this one on MTV all the time back in the day.
Love is many things....
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 15, 2018:
Nice one, I good laugh out of that one, thanks. :)
Good morning! TGIF My breakfast is ready, thanks to @MrLizard. What are you having?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 17, 2018:
Having my coffee too. Good morning to you, and I hope you have a great weekend. :)
Ok so we did the toilet seat war?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 17, 2018:
All I know is when my bestie comes over and uses the toilet, she uses a shit load of TP. I don't know why, is that a femail thing, or is she just nuts.
Good morning! Have a great Saturday! PS, here's my breakfast too ... shrimp and spinach omelette
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 18, 2018:
That's pretty much me every morning. Mine is brewing at the moment, so I'm all sqinty eyed.
Guacamole for me.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to food. I used to be a chef, so I've been fortunate to have tried myriad different foods. Quite honestly there isn't much I don't like.
Atheism on a decline?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 19, 2018:
I've read studies the say the opposite. The increase of Atheists, seculars, non's, free thinkers etc. Has been on a steady increase .
Most recent photo on your phone or computer. No cheating. ?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 19, 2018:
A screen shot of My main toon on World of Warcraft. She's a blood elf shadow priest. Yeah, I know I'm a nerd.
What would you do??
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 19, 2018:
That's the thing with Schizoaffective disorder, sometimes I do see things like that, or hear it. but It's not always creepy that. It used to scare the shit out of me for a moment. But i've learned some great coping tools with my therapist on how to deal with that. Now days even when it happens, and after I calm down, i'll actually laugh, thinking, damn, that was a good one.
Are you a dog person or a cat person? (I'm a cat person)
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Dog person.
Is it time yet?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 20, 2018:
I sometimes have the dilemma of wanting to sleep in more, and have to pee really bad. as for the question, my morning meds make me very sleepy for about an hourish. I usually fight it and have some coffee. But sometimes I'll just say hell with it and take a nap.
I don't really have a plan ?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 21, 2018:
I shuffle around like a zombie while my coffee is brewing. I can't even begin to think about my day till i've had a couple of cups.
In This Moment- Adrenalize [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 21, 2018:
One of the things I like about this metal/punk group here is that I get to be turned onto some music that I've never heard before. Some I like, some I don't. But this one i really like. Thank for turning me on to them. Good stuff.
If you could learn one thing that you don't know yet, what would it be?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 21, 2018:
Cellular biology. I know a bit from school, and i've read some papers, but I would love to have a much better understanding.
Do you have a favorite break up song?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 21, 2018:
In my book Harry Nilsson wrote the best break up song ever. https://youtu.be/GBmXLABEo_k
Holy shitballs.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Hope you have a great time. :)
At the Isis strip club.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Where's the burka?
Thanks to this site I am chatting with a good man offline.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I honestly believe that being happy with ones self is key. Too many times I've seen people settle for less than they deserve because insecurities can make one think that you are not worth some one better. JMHO.
Magician Assistant
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Now that's what I call a good first date. ;)
Who would make the best US president
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Dr. Neil DeGrasse Tyson.
Quick question. What is growing in YOUR garden this season?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I grow Peperoncini rossi. They are an Italian pepper. Great flavor, and not to hot, I use them in quite a few dishes. I also grow sweet basil. They both grow well here in Florida.
Working towards offensive...
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 23, 2018:
One has to keep their priorities straight. :)
Craziest religious thing you’ve ever done?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I wish I had something good to post on this, but alas, I've never been a believer so I've never had such experiences.
Why We Effin Miss You Hitch [youtube.com]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I saw this the other day. I really do miss him. God is NOT Great, is one of my favorite books.
Good morning.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 24, 2018:
This question is one that is in the profile makeup.
When you are interacting with other members in this group, what makes you happiest?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 24, 2018:
Just the interaction itself makes me happy.
Happy Friday! Make it fabulous!
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 24, 2018:
Time to get my drinking on. :)
Just a few things that have been on my mind 1.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I'm 53, and even though we live very far away, I go up north somewhere between thanksgiving and christmas. for about a week. She I and my step dad do all kinds of things together. see a movie, take a walk through the gardens. have some great food, I used to be a chef, so I like to treat them to something really nice. then usuall we'll have a glass of wine or two, and watch some Game of Thrones or some other show we like. it's great that we still get to do that.\
A quick shout out to siblings.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I have 1 sister, but I didn't know her very well. My parents split when I was younger, I went with my mom, and my sister went with my dad.And since neither me or my mom communicate with my father, I rarely ever got to grow up with her. After we both got older we reunited, and got to know each other. She has two kids, that I get along with really well.
What is it that you would prefer to be doing tonight?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Having a few glasses of some good wine, and playing/ writing some Spanish guitar. I've been on the upside in creativity lately, so I want to take advantage while I can.
This would be cool in your yard.???
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 25, 2018:
It would do a gob of keeping Jehovah's witnesses away.
Type O Negative - Profits of Doom [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I am a huge fan of theirs. I got to see them live quite a few times. To me I think they sounded better than they did on record. It's a shame that Pete died, I would have loved to have heard more from them.
Good Morning! Sharing what I am most proud of today ?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 27, 2018:
We have Jazz, and Blues festivals here in the Tampa-Clearwater area, especially in a town called Ybor city. They close off a block or so, and you can go get some beer or some wine, and take it out side.. And a lot of resturaunts bring food for the ocasion. Some times they will have parades with bands playing music. They have many celebrations like that many times a year. I try to go there as much as possible with some friends and listen to some great bands. Hell of a great time.
"Believing is easier than thinking. Hence so many more believers than thinkers." - Bruce Calvert
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 28, 2018:
That reminds me of a great Carl Sagan quote.
Godsmack - Crying Like a Bitch [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 29, 2018:
I was actually going to post this myself, but I went with something else today. Great song.
Post a song, maybe even daily, about our age group/generation.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Stevie Wonders, Songs in the key of life is one of my all time favorite albums. https://youtu.be/hYKYka-PNt0
What communities do you belong to?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I volunteer at a homeless shelter. There are a community of us that do that there. Other than that I have a group of friends that I play World of Warcraft with. Not much else.
Gentleman, without another scrap of information, would you ask this woman out on a date, given the ...
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I would, I love fishing.
Christian VS Muslim [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I've been a fan of Darkmatter2525 for over a decade or so. I've posted a bunch of his stuff, It's great stuff. Jeffrey is my favorite. I like his other channel too, Dark Antics.He doesn't do animated stuff on there, it's mostly just him but he has a bunch of great ones.
Do you think it's possible to have chemistry from just tl talking on the phone and texting?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I'll go as far as saying that there could be a good connection, Some chemistry even. But as far as anything farther, I non't think i can until I actually meet them. Some people don't act in real life as they do on a blog site. I have to be clear on this, as to say, not every one does this. I have met quite a few people from online places like some online games, to blog sites etc.. Most were exactly the way they seemed in real life just the way they the are online.But I've met a few that were anything but the same as the person they portray to be on line. Maybe it's just me, but That is the reason I will only go so far with another until we actually meet in person.
Danzig was released 30 years ago yesterday.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I am a big fan of the Misfits as well.
How much do those guys who yell in the back of rap songs make? I could totally do that.
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I've not really been a fan of rap with a few exceptions. Mostly old school stuff, like Run DMC, Fat Boys, Chuck D,NWA. Only a few songs though.
My Third Best Pick-Up Line: "Hey, girl. Are you sick?
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Ooooooh, I'm getting all hot and bothered again.Swooning.
The Power of Burning Man - TheHumanist.com
TristanNuvo comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Just kidding, That sounds like a great time.
Happy September!
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Happy September to you as well. :) Here's a good song to start the month off. Earth, Wind & Fire - September. https://youtu.be/Gs069dndIYk
Mind on display
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Carl Sagan.
Who is your favorite Judge on television?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 2, 2018:
I don't really watch much TV. But I've seen some clips on Youtube of judge Judy, and she cracked me up putting people in their place.
Bach again. The Toccata and Fugue in D minor. - Xavier Varnus [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 3, 2018:
As far as I am concerned, you simply can't go wrong with some Bach. Great choice, I honestly can't think of a more well known piece than this.
What scares you the most? ???
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Clowns. They scare the loving shit out of me, and give me nightmares.
It's been a good morning so far, my friends! Coffee with my new sweetheart this morning before work.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I woke up late, and had to rush to get to my psychiatrist, and get my meds filled. So I didn't get to have my coffee till after i got home. I hate when that happens.
Your sitting on a park bench I come to sit on the bench as well.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I usually will give a genuine 'Hello' , and let them respond. Sometimes a conversation will make its way, sometimes it doesn't. But I will always at least say 'Hi'. I do the same when walking down the street to people coming the other way.
Seth Andrews: Religious Trauma Syndrome - YouTube
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 4, 2018:
Saw this one. I love his podcasts, been a fan for a long time. He is a great speaker, I guess he got that way from hosting a Christian radio show back before he lost his faith. Over the years I've seen his popularity grow, and along the way he's made some great friends, with others that I've followed for a long time as well.
"Trust your feelings" On NPR, they were talking about how "trust your feelings" has warped far ...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 4, 2018:
This reminds me of a great Carl Sagan quote.
Spooky Dia de los Muertos make up I did a few years ago.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 4, 2018:
Sexy. :) Really though, That is some great work.
Let's try this again.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Pretty good. I still like the original better though.
I would never debate someone on their religious beliefs (unless they ask to have that debate) but I ...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 6, 2018:
I just commented on another post about this very thing. Essentially, I feel and act the same way you do. Oh, and Welcome.
What is the best thing to do when someone says something to you you find offensive?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Actually, to be honest there isn't much that I find offensive when it's aimed at me. But I will get in someones face when they are being real offensive to another.
I saw this and had to post it because while everyone has the right to protest whatever they want, ...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Yeah, about that......
I want to know how you meet new people.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 7, 2018:
I am also usually an introvert, never really going out unless with a friend. But I decided a while ago that I wanted to change that. So I did little things like going out to eat by myself, going to the pub to have a beer or two by my self, and a few other things. I'll be honest, it was terrifying at first, but after a while I started to get more comfortable with it. Now I have no problem with doing things alone. Don't get me wrong, i still like going out with friends much better, but it's nice to know that if I want, I can do it alone.
What is your favorite place you've ever lived?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 8, 2018:
Right where I am at, Clearwater Florida.
Can science and religion be reconciled?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 8, 2018:
There are some that do. For example. Dr. Kennith R Miller. He's a cellular biologist, and a professor at Brown, He is also a huge promoter of evolution. And Her is a devout Romen Catholic. And there is Frances Collins, who led the team on the genome project, also a promoter of evolution, and he as well, is a believer in god. Usually the norm for the elite scientists are Atheists, or at least Agnostic. but again, there are some exceptions.
How do you like, or do, your potatoes?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 8, 2018:
I've never had potatoes, any way cooked that I didn't like.
Chimera try to survive [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 8, 2018:
Yhanks for posting this. I've been a metal fan since the old days of Black Sabbath, and I've kept up with many bands since. One thing I really like is being turned on to something new to me. This is great, I'll have to look up some more of them.
I just had a mind blowing conversation with my fundamental christian mother.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 13, 2018:
I've noticed that sometimes planting seeds works wonders.
A year ago a paymate discovered that I have faur G spots. How many G spots you have?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 14, 2018:
Depending on the person I am with, my whole body can be one. Then again, the wrong person, and I have none.
Any guys or gals looking ???
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 14, 2018:
That's pretty much my MO.
Here's a good question. [youtube.com]
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 14, 2018:
I was raised by parents and aunts and uncles that turned me onto among many, the Beatles. I've been an avid fan ever since. A side from that, no I've never done it in the road. But. I am a member of the mile high club. That's gota mean something. :)
Adagio for Strings.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 22, 2018:
This one is in my tops for favorites. as well. Beautifully played.
Lentil soup: lentils, potatoes, carrots, leek, celery, onion, capsicum (probably called bell peppers...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 22, 2018:
That looks great, I love a good lentil soup.
Does a ring really matter?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 25, 2018:
To me a ring is pointless, and very expensive. We would still be together anyway, so no need for a ring. There are many things we could spend that kind of money on that we would enjoy more than a damn ring.
Just For Fun - Your Canine Name
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 25, 2018:
5 black November.
this is literally what it's like
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Meanwhile in Florida.
Good night Grasshopper! Black Sabbath- Planet Caravan [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Great song. Have you heard the Pantera cover of this? it's pretty good.
Just found out my only "non-religious" friend believes in reincarnation, even to the extent that she...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Of the friends I have, some are believers, some are not. Yet we all get along very well. Just because we believe, or not believe in different things, has no bearing on our friendship. We value each other for the person that we are. Honestly, I don't care what anothers belief is. If they are good people, well, that's good enough for me. Given of course that one or both of you don't try to force each other to belilieve, or try to ridicule the other, I don't see why it would mater.
Good morning and Happy Pre-Friday!! Have a good one
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Good morning to you as well. :)
Hello, have a rant, well maybe not a rant exactly.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I've had a few stolen as well. Two of them were fairly expensive. It happens a lot here in Florida.
No smiling in profile pictures makes me swipe left/ lose interest immediately.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I only have 3 pics of me that I took from my web cam. I don't have a camera to take more unless I find a friend who has one. I'm honestly in no hurry, I came here for the community anyway. So if it's that important to you, by all means, swipe away.
I've decided that from now on I'm only posting and commenting in groups.
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 29, 2018:
Well, we belong to most of the same groups, so I'll still get to read your posts. Which is good because I like your posts. :)
Do atheists, who find no magic in the world, live drab, boring lives, by comparison?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 29, 2018:
Atheists by definition don't believe in magic. But one can be inspired, even be in awe of learning what nature and the universe is. From the late great Carl Sagan. "I don't want to believe, I want to know". and learning something new to me is rather exciting. The last thing I would ever think of life as being boring.
Monkey see, monkey do. Perhaps a message to a certain judge?
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 30, 2018:
There isn't anything there.
An Antidote to White Male Capitalist Culture: Adrienne Rich on the Liberating Power of Storytelling ...
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 30, 2018:
I just finished a big book, but I got a cramp in my hand from all the crayon coloring.
I would like to add John Waters’s film Pecker. It’s fantastic! [m.imdb.com]
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 1, 2018:
Oh yes, this is a classic. Haven't seen it in quite a while, I'll have to look it up and see it again. Thanks for reminding me.:)
Unpopular Opinions I know you got 'em, what are they?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 1, 2018:
I believe that a bit of euthanasia might not be such a bad idea. Some people really be taken out of the gene pool.
What's worse?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 1, 2018:
They are all equally horrific.
How annoyed do you get when a religious person give all credit to god, despite it was you that may ...
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I've seen that kind of thing at the homeless shelter I volunteer at. A church group will come and bring diner for every one, when asked the'll say, "we are doing gods work". And all I can think to say (but I hold my tongue) is that, no, you do this because you are a good person, and like to help people. God's got nothing to do with it.
We Should Treat Strangers With Kindness Always
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 2, 2018:
here is a great quote from Dr. Neil DeGrasse Tyson on this.. And I try to live by this.
cats v dogs
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I've always preferred dogs. Not to say that I don't like cats as well, but I'm much more of a dog person. I really miss having one though, we can't have pets where I live.
Netflix time now watching Black Panther. If you seen it how did you like it? ??
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I've been a marvel fan since I was a kid with comic books. I've seen some great movie translations, and I've seen some bad. I thought they did a great job with this one. They even brought him into that last Avengers movie as well, just like the old comics were.
Wow. I just got blocked from my first person. Should I feel honored or offended?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I got blocked from some one the first week I was here. Fine by me though, the guy is an ass.
Why I'm likely to die single...
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I rather enjoy being single. Not to say that Haven't enjoyed most of my relationships, but I seem to favor hanging with my friends, or just alone these days. I've never had a problem with doing things by myself, like going out to diner, or a movie and such. But one never knows, some one special might just come along.
Okay! Why am I getting this everywhere?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I get that often, not sure why.
Today I am posting one of my most favourite choral pieces which I love to sing.
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I have not heard this before. But it's very beautiful. Thanks for sharing this. :)
Doubt vs gullibilty
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
I've mentioned this in another post a bit ago. I find that planting seeds works wonders. i've had conversations with many believers, some are great friends. I learned that it's never a good thing to try and force any one to think differently than they do. However, what I do is listen to what they have to say. Then I'll say how I view things politely. Some times it gets into a great conversation. But I think that a lot of believers, especially the very religious have been mislead at what an Atheist, or non-believer is like. for instance i've heard from many that said things like, you seem very nice, and not judgemental, you seem to enjoy life, and you seem like a nice person, I would not have thought that. That seed of showing that their misconceptions about Atheists were not what they were told. That kind of seed has the potential to have a believer take pause and think. I've known many because of that, ended up questioning their own beliefs.
Slow ride ...
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 3, 2018:
The best way to go IMHO.
Have you stopped watching a TV show, or listening to a musician due to their political beliefs?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 4, 2018:
I liked the band Creed when they first came out. To be honest, i rarely listen to lyrics, It's all about the music. but after a while I did end up listening to them. it just wasn't religious, it was down right preachy. I don't listen to them anymore.
Of course I can, can you?
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 4, 2018:
That is a lovely pic of my ex.
Loves me some Tyson. This is a great one of his about science, and religion. [youtu.be]
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 5, 2018:
oops, I posted this in the wrong group.
Waiting in line for a shuttle, my female friend and I strike up a conversation with an OMG handsome ...
TristanNuvo comments on Oct 5, 2018:
I always ask about the other person,..And listen.

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