Mostly I'm just wasting time, but that wasn't an option

To find a married woman of like mind.

Don't think there's much chance of finding like minds for dating, though never say never!

Dating motivates everything, its a carrot on a stick...

Would like to find a like minded person for something more but interesting conversation is always welcome

In addition to online discussions, I would love to make some new irl, local friends for coffee and conversation.

Looking for my LAST lover of this life!

Looking for my LAST lover of this life!

Honestly this site really helps me just for communication with other folks as I've said numerous times I'm in a cast and trapped in this chair so this is pretty much one of my few contacts with the outside world not really concerned that much about

I decided to be a crazy cat person. Give up on a gf long ago

I think I found this as a dating site, but to me it's more of a atheist/agnostic community. I initially signed up hoping to find women close by that might be a match date-wise, but now have given up on that and actually more pleased with the conversations I have found. There are some bone heads on here, so I've learned that freedom from religious b.s. doesn't mean you are intelligent or insightful, but overall, there are a LOT of good people on here. I am honored to be here and being challenged in my views. Thanks to all for helping me to be a better person! Although, not sure that was a high bar to start with! LOL

Both actually. It's rare to find our kind of people just locally. I think that there are more of us but they stay quiet because of being judged. I have signed up for a few dating sites but just could not push that last "go" button. I could imagine meeting women and then finding out that we were far apart thinking wise. Just did not want to wade through all of them.

Anyone here hailing from Sunny San Diego besides me. Both

1. Humor & Trolling

2. Coming up with things to do

3. Curiosity

4. New things to think about

5. Intelligent discussion

6. More personal stuff