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I would like support from anyone who feels the inclination. I have not worked with the public for some time, but since I actually like the very thing that I fear, I want to be a cashier. I am deathly afraid of it, but everyone I know thinks it is a good idea. I am afraid of this turning into a full blown social phobia, but I do have a few tools in working with a therapist in congnitive development, to learn the job. I am starting with dollar tree because supposedly everything is a dollar and I don't have to worry about price checks and other kinds of interruptions. I applied all over town and gave it my all. I now soon anticipate the scariest part of actually getting hired and having to learn new job skills. Former Dollar Tree cashiers say the learning curve is about 2 weeks. I really do believe this will be good for me in the long run , as I get fulfillment from helping others, but I am scared to death. Yes , slow breathing helps , deep slow breaths to focus . I do have some confidence I can do this, and others swear I can too, licensed professionals. Wish me luck soon 🙂

pat8305 4 Aug 3
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Hi Howard, Go for it bro. After reading your bio I'm sure you'll succeed. You are a likable intelligent guy who I'm sure will interact well with customers. I'm sure after a while you'll be greeting some returning customers as friends. Try to make your interaction with each customer the highlight of their day. You may have come across a cashier like that already. That my friend is the secret to success in your field. Don't get hung up should you bomb every once in a while just chock it off to experience and try something else. I've been in the retail business for 40 years. Good luck to you and enjoy your growth!

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Congratulations on moving forward! I'm sure you will be able to do this. Everyday you go to work or for a job interview will make you stronger and braver. Your therapists will help. We're here to cheer you on, too! You can do it, Howard!!

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Thanks so much, all of you. Really helps. Really does. 🙂

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Just think, you'll be the first to see the new styles of reading glasses arrive. Lucky you!

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You can do this, I am an introvert that has taught himself to speak up in public, public speak and deal with the public in my business dealings. It is difficult at first but, I relied on two things to succeed: 1-The belief that I could do it and 2-the knowledge that many of those you are dealing with are just as troubled dealing with others as you are.

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Yes, you can do this. It's ok to pretend to be fearless - amazingly, it will become true. Good luck Pat.

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Understanding that the customers are idiots just like the rest of us is the first step

If only customers understood that too!

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Hey, good luck! Don't forget to smile!

Carin Level 8 Aug 3, 2018
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