Haha! I was just saying on a different thread that it’s remarkable that every single man on dating sites is so active and into the outdoors.

Marketing, everyone says what they think others want to hear. Not much different than a preacher, falsehoods to bring more business in.

How can people KNOW everyone says it and yet say it too?

And either every man is extremely active (in the City it means they work out 5-7 times a week; in the country they play seven sports) or they think we want them to. They probably think we will imagine them fit and toned. I imagine them as exhausting and no time for me.

I missed that code completely. I like air conditioning and food that requires a fork. Sometimes I get crazy and open a window and eat tacos.

There's a lot of code talking going on I think. I'll know it's not code when I see " Female 50 seeks multiple orgasms from someone who makes great coffee and a dynamite omelet in the morning".

Maybe they mean the movie "The Beach" ?

I just think a romanticized idea. It's a public yet tranqual setting to kick your shoes off and spend some time together. Just talking or saying nothing at all. Can be followed up with some dinner with some wine. Often leads to a romantic evening by the fire in a nice hotel with more wine. We all know where this is going. Que the 70s porn music.

Ever skimmed a dating profile and seen one or more of these lines?

‘I love to travel’

‘I’m laid back, easy-going, and love to have a good time’

‘I’m looking for someone honest, caring and kind’

‘I don’t really know what to write on one of these things’

‘My family is really important to me’

It can get pretty boring reading the same clichés over and over, and after a while it becomes hard to distinguish one profile from another.

20 online dating cliches- and what they mean:

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"Looking for a partner in crime"

"Work hard and play harder" (exhausting again! Plus sounds painful)

But actually what really weirds me out is "just an average guy looking for an average girl," like, you are going to ADMIT that? Lol.

Lies..and more lies...

There's peace in telling vthe truth,since no one ever wanted to date me for being honest, I am great ful that my hand never get tired of aiding me in masterbation, it's a great friend and reliable.

On a few Ive mentioned I'm not adventurous, I don't travel, and I do think like going to the gym. But apparently everyone else does

I dislike long walks.

I dislike the beach.

I am a failure at romance lmao

You must not be in Oregon then. We don't sit on the beach because it's either too windy, too cold, or raining ? we walk!

They may be sitting when you pass by, but how did they get there?

It's cos some moron a long tie, ago decided long walks on the beach was romantiv so they think that if they write it it will come true ...when in reality any kind of walk is way to much effort for them

Nobody tells the actual truth on these sites I am sure......it’s probably what they think sounds romantic! ?

Sorry, my sister lives on the ocean in Palm Beach and I never miss a walk on the beach when I'm there. For some reason when with someone else I can walk on a beach for a long time and not notice the time or distance as I would on regular ground. When I'm walking I see others walking. Maybe it depends on the beach, crowds etc. Although I can recommend sex on the beach, the act not the drink, I actually do like to walk on the beach and do it whenever I can.

I do like long walks on the beach. I used to live near the ocean and I walked on the beach often. I did that once with my last boyfriend. I think that people pretend. Unlike the guy who just posted below me, I do not recommend sex on the beach. Would you to sandpaper your privates?

I would never think to write about walking on the beach, but on the rare occasion when I'm at the beach my wife and I always walk a few miles up the beach and back. Always early in the morning or just before dark, and there are always quite a few others walking, running, walking their dog or looking for shells.
It could be the time of day you're there, or maybe some beaches are different.

I just posted, but something else came to me just after I submitted it. Back when I was looking at singles ads, women would always say they liked hiking. At the time, I was into backpacking and did a lot of hiking, so it's one of the things I was looking for.
A lot of the women I eventually met didn't care anything about hiking even though they put it there like it was a huge part of their lives. Hiking to them was walking from the car to the grocery store, and then they would park as close as possible.

The phrase is nearly always an indicator of not-much-there. Move on......

I actually live on the beach, but it's rare that I'll take a long walk on it.
Mostly I like to just sit there and absorb the nature.
The sound of the waves, The sounds of seagulls,just looking out at the horizon, things like that.
The best though is that I live on the west coast, so we get some amazing sunsets.

I don't know what it is. I live in Missouri and everyone likes "long walks on the beach." We have none. We have no oceans. When I lived in Texas and went to Galveston it was usually too hot for long walks on the beach. What gives with this saying? Wishful thinking maybe.