What do men want in a woman?
Self confidence!! The woman with whom I will share my life should be sure of herself. Insecurity kills any relationship. From being both of us secure individuals will come a high degree of trust, mutual respect and admiration, great communication, loyalty, mutual support an great company, which in turn will make it easy and pleasurable for both of us to pursue our callings, our self-actualización. And that, I submit to you, is what love is, not the syrupy candy heart stuff. Romance is an essential part of it, of course, as much as good sex, but without the above, it has a good chance to fail. Some people call it chemistry; such a tremendously ambiguous term. Too ambiguous to base your relationship on it. And unlike sex, self confidence can last well into old age.
Id say there are a few universals.
Beyond that? Tall, short, fat, thin, ugly, pretty, smart, dumb, naive, shrewd, every color on earth.
You can throw out random positive personality traits, and most guys want those. You can throw out negative personality traits, and some guys want those. I guess what I'm trying to say is... yes.
Sex...men have sexual thought, or experience every 20 minutes. They may not notice it, but it is there, from the smell of a woman's perfume, or the sound of her voice, her hair, her eyes, her figure, her walk, and her clothing. It is not all their fault. Society has created this image of women being the " weaker sex ", and it has been imprinted in their heads. And, what makes it worse is some women even encourage it.
I guess I will chime in. In a man, I have a type...not physically, mind, but with regard to intelligence and a sense of humor. If the intimacy is rewarding, then he becomes sexy and beautiful to me...regardless of appearance. That being said, I draw the line at gargoyles.
A PhD, a pulse, a sense of humor, free of invisible sky friends, kindness, integrity, less than 3 dogs and 4 cats, interest in fitness, books and a leftist point of view. No trumpanzee girls. and an affectionate nature. Extra points for dancing, cycling and Beethoven's 9th.
What Do I want in a woman? Easy answer: A "lady" who is drama-free, intelligent, and can stimulate my mind with intelligent conversation. The natural high I get when I have an engaging conversation with a lady is goodness...it gives me hope that not everyone gives up on "learning".
Someone trustworthy and dependable.
Someone you can respect as well as lust for.
Oh - and a pleasant level of nymphomania, insanely long legs, a cute face, a fine figure, and a love of wearing astonishingly little are bonusses.