Anyone else have family that says "im going to miss you when you're in hell?"
Well, bless them and their self-assurance that they're heaven bound! If they can be that sure, they're claiming the power to determine their fate, in which case they're not relying on a determination from another power. How does that not imply that they could possess veto power over a supreme being? Their own faith could suggest they're in for a surprise.
There seems to be a slight anomaly here in that, if you go to Heaven then you are supposed to be a happy little camper. But how can you be a happy little camper in Heaven when you have a loved one(s) who are in Hell? Presumably while you're all still alive and kicking a family member who thinks you are going to Hell is also someone who loves you and cares for you. Presumably. That said, nobody who has told me to to go to, or wished me in, Hell, has been a family member and thus a presumed loved one which is not to say that lots of non-family people haven't wished me there! They have. However, if you are someone who doesn't actually believe in a literal Heaven or a literal Hell (like me), then you can take the comment with perhaps more of a grain of salt than would otherwise be the case.
No, but that would be a one way ticket to "You're dead to me". No ifs ands or buts.
Bad enough my girl's aunt thinks gawd sends disasters to places because "he's really mad about the hate in the world". (also thinks her measly prayers to give her one more day with her dog being answered is a thing while children are starving)
Just NO. Nope that shit from space. Nopety Nope Nope Nopesville USA. GTFO, do not pass GO, do not collect $100.
My ex in laws. They told my kids that I was leading them to hell. Scared them so much. Made me SO angry. Now they are grown and make their own decisions. They are atheist and in no way worry about religious bullshit. Needless to say, they don't see their Grandparents often.