OMG! That's a fabulous new context for that clip!!!

Along side the world of reality there exists, as you no doubt understand, a world of fantesy where the imagination plays with ideas, creates scenarios, and entertains notions. One aspect that stimulates is the idea of taboo or naughty things. Daring the forbidden can be stimulating. And language bridges the gap between the fantesy and the real. So stimulating your naughty parts is a strong fantesy that becomes stronger if it is verbalized and of course strongest when you have a lover helping you engineer an orgasm or other plesent sensation. Unless you are flying solo, your partner needs to get a share of the stimulation to make it mutual.

Are you saying you don't like to have it done or you just didn't like to read about having it done?