"....not happy with it." Time to reexamine yourself, make a change. study what might be a positive change in your life, seek counseling. Many of use have & it has only helped the majority of us. Now that brain chemistry & plasticity is recognized as a physiological phenomenon, fix you.

Why would anyone be expecting to hear from you?

There is a remedy I wished for when I was in my early teens.

If you succeed you won’t know it.

If you fail you will know it and will probably dislike the consequences.

Have some points on me!

hi. a common error people make when intending to find dates or more on this site is to eschew the community. the community is a good way to get to know people without jumping into a relationship. it is also how to get the levels up. i see you've made two posts and no comments on anyone else's posts. if you want your levels to go up (and the levels are just rewards for participation) then find topics of interest to you and respond to posts in those categories, make posts about things that interest you and hope others are also interested and respond, and look at who writes what. you'll find out who you like and who you don't, and you can proceed from there!

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You have to be at level two to send messages, but it takes almost no time to get there.

You will find the points come quickly by just joining in and replying to other posts...join a few groups too.

You should be at level 2 by now just because of these comments

Comment and vote on other member posts.

Welcome... me responding to your post will give your points a boost. Resserts has said it all below...

Welcome to the site! Just participate in the forums — answer questions, make posts, etc. — and you'll earn points. You also earn points by uploading photos to your profile and completing your bio and profile questions. The levels aren't too important, but at the start it helps prevent spammers from abusing the site. It doesn't take long to get to level 2, and it looks like you're only about 18 points from that threshold. Here's more detailed information about the levels: [agnostic.com]