I went back to review the back and forth to which you referred. The debates were not worth your time or energy - best to ignore their comments. Sometimes it's best to let people's comments stand on their own to show their ignorance without having to point it out.

Just because the men on this site are non believers who supposedly think for themselves, and hopefully more evolved, it doesn't mean that there aren't some classless macho idiots among them. Not everyone knows how to speak and address a lady. Sorry for what they said to you.

I do not debate your asking or anything in your post (or her's - it was also spot on), except to say I believe anyone whose first message is anything like, "Hey sexy" is not actually a complete adult human being (i.e. not a "man" ). You certainly do not deserve any crap for what you said, then or now. Thank you for posting.

Nicely put!
Guys, Ask yourself: Exactly how many actual dates do those whistling construction workers get?...be one, get Nothing!