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There has been some talk on here about unsolicited dick pictures. I wonder if this is sexual harassment or even sexual assault. What do you all think? This did not happen on this site to me.

MsHoliday 8 Dec 3
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Some free advice to guys who take dick pics. No one wants to see your ugly cock. Put it back in your pants and take a picture of your dog instead.

You dumbass.

And I don't mean a picture of your dog's cock, I mean a picture of the whole dog.

you dumbass.

@Sgt_Spanky thanks for clarifying!!!! Lmao

@Marcie1974 Well, I didn't want to be responsible for a flood of dog dick pics on the site.

@Sgt_Spanky much appreciated

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Here is the thing, male penises are ugly. They look like baby aliens. Nothing you can do can make them pretty and in my 20 years+ working with women, I cannot remember anyone of them saying they like looking at willies. So why do men do this? Its like a boy chasing a girl round a playground with a dead worm (pun intended), it is meant to shock and by doing so cause discomfort. It is about their perceived male supremacy and strength. Consequently I would suggest sharing these pics is sexual assault.

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Unsolicited pics of a sexual nature are sexual harassment and I would immediately block them after reporting them.

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Most Dick pics are offensive .....especially Cheney and Nixon.

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A dick is like religion. Keep it to yourself!

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Unsolicited is not cool at all...I do get pics, but usually because I ask for them explicitly or have sent my own adult pictures...never unsolicited...I would block and report people for that....

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For God's sake...put it away, no one wants to see that!

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I think it's abject stupidity, and if anyone were to send any to me, I'd out them publicly.
I'd repost any and all pics and posts they sent me, too.
No reason to keep that information private.
If everyone who received unsolicited pics did that, the problem would most likely go away.
People only do that shit because they think they can get away with it.
Just like any other kind of bad behavior. Once it starts receiving public scrutiny, it usually stops.

@Gooniesnvrdie Which is precisely why everyone needs to out them. Every single time.
Did you not read what I just posted?

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I think it's harassment, and distribution of pornography. It also makes the sender look crass, unattractive, and pathetic.

Orbit Level 7 Dec 3, 2018
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I think it gives me a handy gauge to decide whether or not to block somebody for (obviously) being a dick!

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Unsolicited dick pic = loser.........

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I think it is a form of sexual harassment. The naughty bits are generally not unveiled without a specific invitation. I'm guessing that as a come on, it's probably got a success rate less effective than a wolf whistle. I suppose some guys are hoping that showing what's under the hood will have the desired effect, but it's more likely for the shock value which means they're not all that concerned about the reaction. Why they might choose to do it with an online acquaintance they otherwise want to remain friends with is hard to fathom .

Mostly it's uncouth. It is interesting to me as far gender differences go, that most? men would not have all that much of a problem if women surprised them with unsolicited nudes, allowing it didn't impact marital or relationship status, and you could politely opt out if it wasn't your thing. As an "old" myself, no idea what the accepted social protocol for sexting is with younger generations, though every once in awhile you hear about them making decisions just as poorly thought out as adults do.

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Harassment. In person I might consider assault

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I always thought I'd it as the digital version of a perverse flasher in a park. They are not hoping you like it but want the shocked reaction. I mean come on dude no one wants to see that

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Lol actually with as judgmental as people tend to be on here the last thing I’d put out there is a dick pick.

But the more I think about as competitive and territorial as some of the men are on here I’m just glad that whoever’s doing it hasn’t put it in a view all post.

Damn comments would look like a urologist text book. ?

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I think it's trolling. It's childish and pathetic. Equating it to assault is an insult to people who have been assaulted.
Personally, I find it hard to think of it as harassment when the click of a block-button can banish the creep; unless he's stalking you specifically.

It's different irl, of course. But this is the electronical cat footage depository - AKA the Internet.

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If I've got it right, this is a dating and social site for like minded people. Now if I went out dating, even in my kilt, I would consider it socially unacceptable to wave my willy around without being expressly asked by the lady I was with and not in public. Thus, I don't think it is acceptable to post penis pictures, or breasts, bums and vaginas.
If people want to post such pictures, then join a sex site, although I am unaware if there happens to be any for Atheists and Agnostics.

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If one can, repost the pictures to the sender's mother, sister, wife, aunt, granny, daughters, boss, minister/etc as applicable. Just make sure everyone is above 18.

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I have received some disgusting dick pics on dating sites as well as pleas to respond with top less photos. That is instant blocking. Crude!

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What if your name is Dick? That could create a real problem. Then, if you ask Dick for a picture, then be careful what you ask for.

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Could be an embarrassing sexual misstep like if two people are already talking and he makes that move to soon, harrassmant for sure if its completely out of the blue, or obviously unwanted. I guess it's like any other form of sexual interaction. Depends on the context.

MsAl Level 8 Dec 3, 2018
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If anything it's poor judgement and it does say a lot more about the sender (no pun intended). Now, if someone complain at the first then there are plenty of ways to make it stop. If they get offended at the twentieth pic (from the same person) then that's something else.

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I have never even considered the possibility.

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Not in the face!

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Well... it's not like they didn't ask. ?

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