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Question primarily for women... Men can answer too.. I guess lol
Did you feel different in a bikini than you do in a bra and panties? Please explain...

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I do! Never really thought about it though, I guess because a bikini it meant to be worn in public? Also they’re usually made out of thicker material.

I’ve become curvy/BBW in the last 8 or so years. Hadn’t worn a bikini in probably 25 years but got brave last year and bought a 2 piece swimsuit. Swim skirt and halter style top....I was SO nervous to wear it to the pool at my apartment complex BUT nobody’s eyes exploded or and no one threw up at the sight of me (I’m obviously joking here but it was way out of my comfort zone). I’m really glad I bought it.

That's great!


It depends entirely on whose bra and panties l am wearing, and if they know about it. smile001.gif

Sticks48 Level 9 Dec 27, 2018

I could not hate the word panties more. Instant cringe.

Me too! I don't know why, but I've always hated that word even when I was a kid. It just seems patronizing or something.

@Remi It is at once infantilizing a piece of clothing while conjuring an image of some perv tittering over it. Just creepy.


I definitely feel different in bra and panties.. I think it is just associate undergarments with covering your sexual parts while a bikini is associated with swimming, bathing, sports, etc.

Seriously, most undergarments cover more than a lot of bikinis, so it has to be the association.


I feel sexier in a bikini.


I’ve never worn a bikini. I’m way too “glow in the dark” to show that much skin.


Well 😂Where I am from people swim at least topless , and many private beaches just nude . I always wear a bikini . I am comftable w panties and bras or bikinis . But there is the right time and place for everything . If I am around kids , no reasons to wear my usual swim wear . Boy shorts and a modest bra is more appropriate to my opinion . Same ways , if u visiting my house and u are not my lover , no reason to see me on my underware and no reason for me to see u on yours .
It's not about modesty . It's about privacy . The human body is a beautiful and " alive " communicator . Exposing it carelessly for the world to see , its like exposing pieces of soul that I don't care to share w everyone or seen from everyone .
Unfurtunately sense the beginning of the world it seems , both female bodies and male bodies have been exploited to gain $$, fame , polularity and even sell a toaster or a coffee brand . Everything sells faster and better w pair of boobs . To the point that it doesn't matter anymore . Porn and soft porn has anesthetize both male and female senses to what is sexy or beautiful . At least is free on now days and don't have to pay to download ??😂😂😂

Pralina1 Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

Well, yeah. Of course I do. Swimsuit material is made of different material than that of lingerie. Lingerie tends to be silky and somewhat flimsy for a lot of people. Oh, and in my case fugly. I choose bras and panties that feel good, not those that look good. So, they're going to be cotton/underwire or plain cotton, mismatched, and really plain. I choose bikinis for their "wow" value, the color and design, and how well they are constructed.


I’ve tried on both and surprisingly the bikini top was more comfortable but my testicles would still fall out of both the swimsuit and panties.?

Just saying if I was a woman I’d still go commando ✊?

48thRonin Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

Boxer briefs are where it's at. The freedom of commando yet the security of underwear. Now if only they made some for women that didn't cost 4 times what they cost for men... ? on the plus side, if I buy men's boxers I don't have to deal with pastels being my only option!

@Remi You say that because you don’t have to deal with the swingers fighting over which side to be on but yeah you’re not kidding about the cost but it looks like Hanes boy briefs aren’t priced too high and they look like they’d be... ( damn anyway ) yeah check them out. ( then show me. Shit I didn’t mean to say that out loud. ) ???‍♂️??‍♂️


No. Because I've never worn either out in public.

bleurowz Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

I used to when i was young. Now i see no difference.

Wendiw Level 7 Dec 27, 2018

I haven't worn a bikini in 40+ years, I have to honestly say I don't remember.


How do you mean? Comfort? Being seen by others?

I feel very different in a bikini than I do in my underwear. They're a different style, different material, and come with different social norms and conditions. Not to mention if I choose to put on a bikini and go out in public I'm aware that I'm going to be seen by others and I'm ok with it. Not so in my underwear unless I specifically chose to wear an outfit in which it could be seen.

Paracosm Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

I’ve always wondered why girls who wear bikinis freak out if you catch them in their underwear that is basically the same thing.



it does seam strange that woman go to the beech or on holiday in the sun and are more than happy too wear next to nothing yet are really bothered about people seeing them in there underwear

@PalacinkyPDX yes on the beech you where even less

@PalacinkyPDX so men look at you differently on the beech or woman than if they catch a glimpse of you in your underwear or your mates and are comfortable in your underwear?


Yes. I was practically nude in public in that 2 piece.

Mooolah Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

I've always hated my body too much to wear a bikini, even when I was in much better shape..some day I hope to know what that feels like. XD

RezZa Level 5 Dec 27, 2018

I'm comfortable in either

Angelina Level 5 Dec 27, 2018

I have never worn a bikini. I am too obese. I do swim a lot in a one piece cossie

Amisja Level 8 Dec 27, 2018

Feeling a woman in a swim suit suggests spontaneity. I am not choosy though. It's all about who is inside.


I have never worn a bikini, my fat ass would probably not fit in one, plus no one needs that image in their head.??. I do like to look at women in them. A one piece is good too. It's up to the woman; whatever she is comfortable wearing she should wear.

noworry28 Level 7 Dec 27, 2018

"Does a woman feel different in a bikini to the way she feels in a bra and panties?"

This, ladies and gentlemen, is an ambiguous question. It could mean 'if a woman wears either a bikini or a bra and panties, does she feel different in herself, depending on which item she wears?' or 'if someone felt two women, one wearing bra and panties, the other wearing a bikini, would they feel different to the person feeling them?'

ToakReon Level 7 Dec 27, 2018

You're too smart to understand anything lol
Did you know that someone who questions everything knows nothing?


I'd never swin in a bra and panties..a nice thong bikini please..

Charlene Level 9 Dec 27, 2018

I’ve never found a bikini top in my size with an underwire in it. I don’t really have a bikini body anyway. But I can’t imagine how it would feel different from underwear.


i do not wear underwear of any kind so i cannot compare. as for bikinis, i am fat so i wear one-piece suits.


genessa Level 8 Dec 27, 2018
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