I'd be glad I dodged that bullet. And I'd keep on dodging it.

Did she date anyone? If not, was it because she was pining for you? If that was the case, why didn't she contact you? If she did date other people, then I think she's got nothing to complain about. In any case, I think this is going to be a case of date, break up, repeat.

Seems the passes have spoken. She has issues, and although we all have issues, that one is not going away and will manifest itself in worse ways. Standby for stalking to commence.

There is not much you can do with ideas like that. It just depends on what you want. I once told my stepdad that I had apologized to my ex on a certain issue and we were getting along fine now. He had a fit and said I had nothing to apologize for. OK, smart man. Do you want to be together and move along or continually be fighting over bullshit? I chose moving along.

If you mean "every other woman we meet on the street stops and hugs me because we've been in the sack", then I understand her concern.

Count your blessings....

I would try and understand why it bothers her and then you can see if it is worth moving things forward. You split/halted for a reason, will that reason appear again?

Better to be alone than to deal with that.

You may be trying to rekindle things, but it doesn't sound like she is ...

Letting go of the past is necessary to move forward - in anything.

Unless, when you ended things over a year ago, you made a vow to remain faithful anyway - of course you dated others ! Hell.

Hope things turn out the way you want.

Pass that one on by. She seems totally insecure and you don't want that.

If you are determined to make this work then as crappy as it sounds, it needs to be put in a take it or leave it scenario. Kind of a - this is reality, we werent together. Either you get over it and we get together, or you don't and we dont. Cant change the past. All we can do is apologize for the damaged feelings and work to make the future better.