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What is your idea of a good death?

MarikaHandakas 3 Mar 19
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The only good death is a dead death (i.e. one that doesn’t happen). Death is pretty much the antithesis of good.

skado Level 9 Mar 19, 2019

That's an odd thing to say.

I don't know that I agree exactly. Death that is not chosen freely can be said to be less than optimal. In an ideal world, everyone would die only when they choose to have no more new experiences, out of sheer boredom rather than some form of suffering -- assuming that would even in occur in a world free of suffering.

There are people (and I am not one of them) who would argue that death (or maybe more accurately, mortality) is such an intrinsic part of life that the value of life would be diminished by trying to separate the two. It's sort of the flip side of the atheist argument that life is more precious because it's finite. If theism that posits an afterlife cheapens the value of life, then so would science that comes bearing biological immortality. I think this may reveal the weakness of the atheist argument about the value of mortality more than it reveals any inherent problem with biological immortality itself.

Under present circumstances though where quality of life becomes unobtanium at some point, death is a mercy and a finite existence is a comfort.

@mordant
Yeah, I'm not one of them either. I don't disagree with what you're saying here. Of course under current conditions, we can't deny the value of death as a means of escaping a life not worth living. But that's combining two issues instead of just looking at one.

It's like saying sex is bad because you can catch/spread disease. Well, it's true disease can be spread sexually. That can't be denied. But sex and disease are two separate issues that happen to be related. I would say sex is good and disease is bad, and where the two intersect, you need to be careful.

So I still say death is bad and escape from suffering is good, and making whatever compromise we must, under the circumstances, is just part of being a rational adult.

I like to make this statement about death every chance I get, to help break the mythology of the inevitability of death. Recently deceased AI scientist, Marvin Minsky said that if it had not been for religious resistance to science, we would long since have discovered a cure for death. And, realistically, I think we are not talking about doing away with death so much as taking control of its timing.

But, if @AstroChuck happens to be wrong πŸ™‚ and our species survives (I have my doubts too) we aren't that far away from solving that problem of being able to choose the timing of our death, at minimum. And still one of the greatest obstacles to that achievement is the public assumption of its impossibility and even denial of its desirability.

I like to point out that when we pushed life expectancy from 35 to 85 nobody complained because it was done incrementally. But if you say let's push it to becoming optional, then everybody's against it, because "impossible" you know. I think a public awareness bump is long overdue.

@skado Completely agree. Biological immortality is not impossible, although I don't think we're so close to it that it's going to be an option for me.

I think a big problem is that people have a failure of imagination here. Not so much the notion that biological immortality is impossible but failure to understand that the whole idea behind it is to live as long as you want with good quality of life, and misplaced concerns that basically come from having no way to frame the discussion. People seem to wonder about population concerns, what will we do with all that free time concerns, who will make room for young people concerns. And of course, thanks to religion, probably an aversion to the notion of "playing god". It's true that it would be transformative for society, and people quickly overload on the implications, turning into something New and Scary. It's my view that so long as it's affordable and available to all, biological immortality would usher in a lot of really nice problems to have.

I'd predict people will have fewer children, for example, and wouldn't just keep on having them, as many seem to imagine. Anyone who has had kids understands that one batch (preferably <= 2) is plenty, and if people didn't have to hurry up and have them because they don't want to foreclose their options with age, a lot of people would just never get around to it.

@mordant
"... biological immortality would usher in a lot of really nice problems to have."

Couldn't have said it better myself.

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Giving your life in the saving of another is a good death, all other death is simply a fact of life something inevitable and unavoidable and ethically neutral.

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A heroic death... full of pain, love, adrenaline, sacrifice!

I want to 'go' in a blaze of glory!

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I'd like die age 96, at the controls of an aircraft, doing something obscene with my 22 year old 4th wife!

Really not sure of a "real" answer so I went with an amusing one

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Being shot by a jealous husband at 90!!!

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In deep meditation with complete awareness of the transistion.

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That's easy. The best way to die is fighting for freedom.

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After kicking and fighting death till the age of 97....tottering into a deep patch of woods. Laying down to drift off to sleep, and dieing in my sleep. .....

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In Battle!
tlhIngan maH!

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I think die’ing so someone else can live, heroic sacrifice kinda thing,

I mean it’s a good death, not saying I want it at all, let alone any time in the next 50yrs but it is objectively, morally, I good death

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A good death is like the one in the movie the book, in my wifes loving arms together, while we sleep.

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From a personal perspective a good death is when it happens to someone else, but not family. Since there is no remedy for death there is no need to be concerned for anything except the loved ones left behind. For me, upon death I would prefer to just disappear. Mourning is a painful experience and would like for no one to have to mourn for me.

GROG Level 6 Mar 19, 2019
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To go out on some good acid, with King Crimson playing in the background!

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Indefinitely postponed.

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I care directly for the elderly so I've thought about this regularly. I've seen alot of people die and alot of families dealing with it. Also alot of people live long term with dementia to the point where they no longer speak and need total care for all functions, and families dealing with that...

Oldest age possible while still having a functioning mental state and being physically able for most of it. Short not too painfull illness at the end, a few days to a week max, long enough to say goodbye, but not long enough to drag it out for me and everyone else.

MsAl Level 8 Mar 20, 2019
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one that never comes.

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I will disagree that one needs to live a long life. But rather, one should live a fulfilling life in which all their needs, as per Maslow's hierarchy, are met. And any (realistic) goals or desires or dreams or wishes of theirs are met. And a pain-free death would me ideal for me. Were it not for my aversion to pain and fear of vomitting I may not be here right now. heh xD Also, to have closure before one dies and sort out all one's affairs and say one's goodbyes or farewells and make ammends. For me, closure is important and I would probably right all my loved ones letters.

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After long and fulfilling life, after telling my family how much I love them, after making sure my possessions and money are distributed as I wish, and after making sure that my beloved dogs are in the hands of people who will love and care for them.... after all that, I hope I die peacefully... Preferably somewhere other than in a home someone will have to sell (not everyone views death with acceptance or peace), and not any place that makes retrieving my body (to cremate) difficult, also not at the bottom of a cliff I wasn't quite able to gracefully descend!

Or as a friend of mine once told me: he wanted to die quietly and peacefully in his sleep. Not screaming as were all the passengers in the car he was driving.... (groan)

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?? All death is good

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Something instant, that leaves me with a vague smile ...

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