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When did my daughter grow up to be such a teenager? I miss my kid so much.

AtheistReader 7 Apr 22
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I have found that to maintain a close relationship with your children as they turn into adults you have to try to find common points of interest my son is 31 Going on 32 and we both love video games and we actually sit in our respective homes and play video games online together we also both play the guitar and enjoy writing and playing music so I'll go over to his place and hang out and we'll play guitar together we talk constantly and we're both into different types of art so we talk about art all these common points of interest have kept me in a very close relationship with my son even as he is now in his 30s

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Sorry about that. She will most likely become a tolerable person in a few years. ? I used to joke about how my parents were such morons when I was 15 and they got so much smarter over the next 10 years.

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It is so hard. I'm sorry. Puberty was worse than colic, & I thought colic was awful!

Carin Level 8 Apr 22, 2019
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We blink.. and childhood is over.

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The teens are the most interesting part of childhood, from a parent's point of view. Your daughter is still a child, but she's going to start expressing her own opinions - and if you listen and respect her right to have opinions of her own, you'll get a preview of the woman she's going to become.

Jnei Level 8 Apr 22, 2019

I am trying. That goal of listening and respecting her opinions is coming to clash with my duty to create a routine and boundaries for her. And I am afraid that I don't know what I am doing.

@AtheistReader It sounds to me like you're doing a pretty good job. Teenage years are a massive learning curving for the teen, but also for the parent; keep setting boundaries and expect her to break them, then be there for her when she breaks them a little too much and needs your guidance - she's going to appreciate that, even if she doesn't admit it for another 15 years. Also, nobody has any idea what we're doing - there's no "Teenager Owner's Manual". Do what feels right!

@AtheistReader NO ONE KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING. And the moment you think you’ve figured it out, everything will change.

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