I feel like I've been too honest on here, lol. Like if there was a guy in my area that was interested....after he read some of my posts he'd be like "hell no!"
But at the same point, I kinda like being me. It's nice having a community where I feel like I can be completely honest, and while everyone may not agree with me, for the most part everyone is respectful.
So thank you guys for that!
I think it's better to be honest and get a 'hell no' than to pretend to be something you're not. One of the many problems with conventional dating dates is that you never know if someone is who and what they say they are, Agnostic.com seems to have reduced that
Well,think of our options.
That big blue site where your "friends" post their thoughts and prayers and pictures of jesus welcoming you into heaven and constant politcal opinions, or the dating sites where you're shown a picture and are supposed to make a snap judgment of whether they look good enough for you. I could go on about all the bullshit.
But we're here (hopefully) because we are done with the bullshit.
I have been told I was "too honest for my own good". Mos tpeopel do want to hear little white lies that makes them feel better.
I think honest peopel need to acknowledge and respect differences in any partners they might get or have.
you woudl think tht peopel woudl wnat an honest partner, but it really doesnt' seem to be so.
On the bright side honest peopel are generally content beign single if peoel cant' accept them for who they are, and we are generally already happy and dont' need someoen else to "complete" us because we are already complete. Havign a partner will only enhance our alredy happy lives, and we don't 'need someoen else in order to feel happy.
As a great philosophical group once said:
There's only one thing that I know how to do well
And I've often been told that you only can do
What you know how to do well
And that's be you,
Be what you're like,
Be like yourself,
And so I'm having a wonderful time
But I'd rather be whistling in the dark
I love this site for that, transparency, honesty is the key anyway. People get to read and write here much more than say on Match.stupidcom...here you can actually interact, opening freely and see (kind of) how people act in a crowd, once again 'kind of', not like in person, but better than those private messages imo anyway.
True. This is the first dating forum I've been on in years, and the first one when I was aware of my gender variables..i.e. my being being partially transmale, androgyne, demisexual, etc.
For that reason, I now don't know my sexual orientation. Before, cis hetero is what I thought I was, and all I dated. Now, I don't know who to like, or the rules.
Being demisexual, I can't depend on sexual attraction to give me cues.