If you could talk to someone that has passed away, who would it be and what would you say to them?
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I would hug my mom one more time and tell her I loved her, but I do that in my hart all the time,next would be my old cat, now you may think that's sad but that's all I got? I'm an old 66 year old gay dude and its a wonder I made it that far in this insane world.
busterboy
Level 5
Mar 29, 2018
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I would tell my papa how much I love him and thank him for all the time I got to spend with him and tell him how desperately I miss him and how I'm sorry that I can't get over his death
LadyAlyxandrea
Level 8
Mar 29, 2018
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This is almost exactly what my first thought was. I am sorry for your loss, and I relate so much... I lost my papa a few years ago, and I am not able to move completely past it. He was my best friend, and I miss him so much.
I truly hope you find some peace. I hope we both do.
@RaeBxtchens he died suddenly in my arms in a severely traumatic way, and it really scarred me up. I get nauseated even mentioning it. He was the closest to me over everyone and I feel like a large piece of me died with him. It's so hard. I miss him so much. I hope you find the peace you need, too. I hate feeling this way
@LadyAlyxandrea I cannot possibly imagine what you must be going through or feeling. I am so sorry. If I could, and you'd accept, I would hug you.
I don't have anything helpful, but I can offer you that the only thing that sometimes helps me, is allowing myself a moment to cry, then focusing on the good memories and how much he meant to me. However, with such severe trauma, you may need counseling to truly deal with this.
But you didn't ask for advice, so I am sorry if is unwelcome.
@RaeBxtchens please, it is fine. Im always receptive to ideas. I've already been through multiple therapists, but they couldn't do much as I'm rather experienced with psychology and already tried the things they'd suggest. Nows just a matter of dealing with the PTSD. thank you thiugh, for your kind words and advice
I would talk to Jesus and say "Look at the big mess you have made in the world with your BS story"
nicknotes
Level 8
Mar 29, 2018
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Maybe he just had a few good card tricks and folks just blew it out of proportion.
@Tominator That is true ....Actually Jesus did not do any miracles. Later writers embellished the story with miracles.
When Jesus was with his Apostles in the garden of Gethsemane, [Mark 14:32-50] when Judas and the men came for Jesus with swords and clubs, the Apostles feared for their lives and they ran away. ""And they all left Him and fled."" [Mark 14:50] Had the Apostles actually witnessed Jesus healing the sick and injured, walking on water, and raising the dead, they would have had nothing to fear. The safest place to be would be with a man who could perform these fabulous miracles. But the Apostles ran for their lives because the miracles in the gospels never happened.
My grandfather. Just to make it known to him that he did not pass away. I would say to him, "You did not pass away, you nitwit. You died. Plain and simple. D-I-E-D." I would then ask him to disseminate that information to all his relatives so I wouldn't have to listen to all of them evading the issue with stupid euphemisms at his funeral.
evidentialist
Level 8
Mar 29, 2018
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I hearya. Or, even worse, when people drop the 'away.'. 'So and so passed.' Passed what? A test? The potatoes? Me on the highway?
My dad. I’d tell him that I love him but I’d never follow his advice on relationships again!
SergeyCornwall
Level 4
Mar 29, 2018
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My dad. We had a blowout one week before he died at 90. Next time I saw him was at funeral home.
sassygirl3869
Level 9
Mar 29, 2018
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I am sure your father knew you loved him. I hope you find peace.
I would talk 2 my pop, that's my grandpa. I would like 2 ask him what his opinion of my big new plans for the future is. He was kinda blunt, not very emotional, or at least he controlled it well, and very outspoken. It could be taken the wrong way, but he was also the most honest, hard working, and toughest old man I ever met. He always did right by our family and his word actually meant something.
Byrd
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Mar 29, 2018
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