Hey everyone. I'm not new exactly, but havent been on in a year or so. I'm Britt, 35 from Montgomery, AL. I've been divorced for two years and so far the dating world has not been very awesome. I'm hoping to meet someone likeminded here. I figure ita worth a shot. I'm a straight male.
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Hey Britt, here's my 2 cents. It seems to me that this site attracts a disproportionate number of sapiosexuals (those who are attracted to one another by what, or more importantly, how one thinks--i.e., people who get turned on by another's mind). Consider this when posting comments, and be prepared to be disappointed in the 'lack of action' this site delivers. But anything's possible ... people come here for multiple reasons.
p-nullifidian
Level 8
Feb 27, 2020
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Most women will refuse to respond to a guy who has a shirtless photo. I don't know why, but that's what they say. Also, no fish or other dead animals. Unless you are looking for a very specific kind of woman.
BitFlipper
Level 8
Feb 25, 2020
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Nice pic, but this is SO not a typical dating site. Jump in & respond to existing posts, so folks can actually get to know You.
AnneWimsey
Level 9
Feb 25, 2020
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For heaven's sake, put on a shirt.
What matters more than anything when it comes to your online dating profile? One word: Photos. Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates. Or not.
Use your photos to express who you are, what you love to do, where you love to go and what type of lifestyle you lead.
You have 5 seconds to make a good impression. Women will see your main photo as a tiny pic the size of a saltine cracker on their cell phone screens. If your main photo is not clear, bright and attractive, they move on.
A genuine smile is inviting, warm and appealing. Women want to see your eyes and smile. If you look happy in your photos, women will see you as a fun person they will enjoy being around.
To make you stand out, the background should contrast with your hair color. Choose a clean, uncluttered background.
Please get new photos taken outdoors for better lighting, and with a quality digital camera. Digital cameras are much better than smart phones at processing available light.
Your main photo should be a head-and-shoulder shot, showing you SMILING and looking at the camera. You also need one recent, full body shot, again taken outdoors and smiling.
Other pictures should show you outdoors, doing activities you enjoy. No hats, sunglasses, alcohol or stupid poses. You must be in every picture.
Ask a friend to take 24 pictures of you outdoors with a digital camera, wearing different clothes in various locations. Upload the best 8.
Caption and date each photo- giving the location and year- to make the photos more interesting and clear. Make the captions short (and humorous, if possible). Captions look best as a single line.
Show your pearly whites! Women assume: a nice smile = healthy mouth = good kisser.
Good luck with your search.
I took these photos of Stephanie, 74, at her house for her online dating profile. Insisted she change clothes. She loves wine. It worked.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Feb 25, 2020
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oh man I have not used your suggestions of outdoor photos or photos that show what I love to do, where I love to go and what type of lifestyle I lead. Maybe that's why I get such scummy guys messaging me and some guys thinking they can be so damn forward with me in 1st messages (BDSM related messages). Note, I do not have provocative pics featured either.
@demifeministgal all of my photos are Selfies. I don't even have anyone to take pictures of me.
I wish I had a friggin shirt! I'm still waiting for socks.
She's 74? Holy crop........She looks like Jamie Lee Curtis.
Before taking photos, Stephanie exfoliated her face and neck, used a moisturizing mask and moisturized her skin. She's glowing.
In "3 Ways to Be Photogenic," the #1 tip: Focus on Your Face.
Like most photographers, I took 60 photos and chose the best four.
Just don't post pictures with your hat on backwards. 
Cyklone
Level 7
Feb 25, 2020
5
It's ok if your head is on backwards too. But then ya butt is on the wrong side. Wadda do eh?
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