See the word controlling Human are really good at controlling again
where there is control that is not a good outome
we need to crete a society where there is no control in the sense where life or death is involved

Hi,I said the same to my wife.If I could go back I would have to relive my first marriage as if that hadn't failed I would not have met my wife.35 years on and still I'm holding on to the hate.

Some time ago, I accepted everything in my past as what made me who I am right now. To change anything, no matter how small, would change who I am. I love who I am and wouldn't change a thing about my past.

I always say you can't go back. I married my first husband because we were living together and probably wanted to please my parents who were his drinking buddies. His behavior mimicked the dysfunctional relationship I had with my family, but I didn't realize it at 23.

If I could do it again AND retain my memories AND could make life take the same trajectory, I might... but the odds of that would be astronomical.

No freaking way would I do it again!!!