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I've long found this to be true. I'm a liberal, non-theist guy living in Vermont, and "spirituality" and pseudoscience is what rules in the communities I'm most often around here. Generally as I get older I'm just shutting up and smiling more often, its simply not worth the energy to debate something - knowing there is little chance of minds in America changing anymore.

We only see what we are looking for, and with mass media we can find whatever we want to. From lizard people to homeopathy, there is "proof" to be found. People need to be caught young, critical thinking needs to be natural by the time they are teenagers.

Observer-Effect 7 May 11
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Who needs friends?

They are handy when you need help with stuff, from jumping your car to maybe sharing resources in a collapsing nation. 🙂

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Enjoy the occasional scrimmage ...but pick your battles ~

Varn Level 8 May 12, 2020
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I say keep refuting pseudoscientific bullshit with solid science (and a healthy dose of humility for those who lack critical thinking skills themselves) and you'll likely change more minds than you realize. I have quite a few people in my life that aren't quite full on woo but heavy on the desire for natural remedies spectrum who come to me to help them sort out the fact from bullshit on things they're considering. "What do you think about infrared saunas for my mom who just got diagnosed with cancer?" Is this herbal tea blend safe to take with my prescription medications?' They know I'm happy to do the research for them and will be fair in my assessment of whether it's safe, beneficial, or what the hell, won't do any harm. Yes, it's a bit of work on my end, but it's my wheelhouse and I enjoy it. Most importantly, more often than not, they are hearing me.

I'm growing out of being too much of a cynical smartass about it, can't change minds that way - but cathartically I don't regret much of it. From as mild as "is it natural? Yes, and . . . I have some very radioactive radium, which I promise is at least as natural". To things that took more effort, like when I made the Homeopathic Uranium preparation. Going absolutely by the official book in how I made it - actually, here - perhaps it will give a chuckle: [sites.google.com]

@Observer-Effect holy shit, that was great and terrible at the same time. 🤣

@Amzungu2 Thank you Ma'am! 🙂 Yeah it was. My ex-wife and her family got super into Homeopathy, and at one point my son had an eye infection. And they were trying homeopathic drops for it, and they didn't work. I found out, I'm prone to them too - I got him antibiotic eyedrops, and the problem started clearing up in a day. And what had just been annoying, "sure, Arnica will make it feel better" siliness - suddenly became war for me.

The uranium homeopathic solution was fun because I could drink jars of it safely, because at the dilutions they go to - there is at least as much uranium in your spring water. So it was to teach something, and to mock them.

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Sometimes that is the wisest outward reaction. Problem is we humans seem hardwired to belong to some sort of community, tribe, group.....

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I've gone the other direction, and friends are rare and valuable.

JimG Level 8 May 11, 2020
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I know it's important to keep the peace with friends. However, if everyone shut up about things just to keep peace, we would all be living in an even more fucked up world than we do.

No one would be standing up for what's right, which always involves speaking up and telling the TRUTH.

You are very wise Athena.

@JimG

Thank you. 🙂
I try to keep some balance between expressing wisdom and being a total shit disturber.

;P

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It’s strange to me that in the US people don’t seem to be friends because of religious or political convictions. In other parts of the world it is different.

Yeah, the groupy syndrome comes to mind. This group, that group, what group you from? Ummm a human one? Seems to squeeze everyone into groups that isolate...

@HerbertNewsam Tribalism makes life simpler, no need to struggle with decisions. Its like religion, I've read thousands of books and still don't know all the answers. A theist can read just one book and know it all!

@Observer-Effect family groups were hugely important against predators, that extension has been highly used as control. " blessing or curse" ? The religionist has both blessing and curse.....

@Observer-Effect what? Where did you get it from that someone can know it all?

@Jolanta Where? From the distant land of classic figurative sayings! 😉

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I’m not remiss in pointing out bs, but I’ll typically let people be as stupid as they want to be. Self determination is important to me. And it’s just not worth it. After all, if the senior priest of the Druidic temple thinks that he can manipulate the ether to affect the overall light in jotunheim, I’m not going to care.

I agree, its not my business - unless folks who believe in Armageddon work in missile silos, or anti-science people are gutting our health infrastructure, religious people are involved in passing laws that govern me. Etc, that's the problem, they don't keep it to themselves.

Its like the drug house down the street from me, selling heroin or speed or something. But the constant stream of visitors and other behavior make it pretty clear. I never paid much attention to it, or reported anything I saw, figuring they can put whatever crap into their own bodies they want to. Until one day there was gunfire there, with a bullet hitting a house next to me. Now, it is my business - and I am now a narc.

I've long dismissed superstitious/pseudoscience idiocy, mostly getting sucked into arguments now and then because of my own ego. But now I believe its a clear and present danger, and quickly killing people right in front of us. And, religion has done this in history before - and people have stood up to it before too.

@Observer-Effect I think it’s easy to differentiate the harmless from the malignant.

@Gatovicolo Well, I think one can be disguised as the other, but then . . . perhaps I'm simply cognitively not nimble enough to always easily differentiate between them.

@Observer-Effect I suppose it can, but phrenology vs TDS seems very easy.

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There are friends and then their are associates, Friends you enjoy being with and you respect them as equals but associates are just people you hang out with for various reasons and often just barely tolerate.
Arthur C. Clarke said that any sufficiently advanced science is indistinguishable from magic but I would add that pseudoscience is magic, just magic that doesn't work.

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'Pseudoscience' is beliefs mistakenly or fraudulently based on the scientific method.
In conversations you often have casual references to something which is based on the scientific method, or is something with legitimate scientific (factual) underpinnings, so while not 'scientific' itself, are valid extropolations.
From a valid premise, all kinds of speculations can emerge.
Surely you're not saying this is 'pseudoscience,' or that EVERYTHING should be fact-checked prior to utterance.
If that were the case, there wouldn't be much to talk about!
By the way, what DO two strict atheists talk about? Do they have an encyclopedia and dictionary at the ready to double-check statements for sound deductive thinking?
I think the internet has cleared up and clarified many foggy, imprecise ideas. It is very easy to pick up one's phone and learn more about this or that assertion. I do it often. Learn a lot that way.

@JohnnyQB My insurance lady says we just do not know what to believe anymore. I find this strange because I had no problems until the last presidential election.

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But it is important, for one's own self-esteem, to at least have some friends one can respect.

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Don't give up. Minds in America are changing; not as fast as chrome rusting, but they are changing.

Yeah, I can't tell you how I'd be working with a fellow engineer and then I'd find out they were wacko. How am I supposed to trust any work product they provide? How can you work in the sciences and repudiate the whole thing at the same time? Sick, sick, sick...

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You should try living in ity bity Wilkesboro NC... and before here, southern OK - I must be a glutton for punishment. I had one telling me today "I HAD to watch this preacher on YouTube about how Covid-19 was part of world order blah blah blah"....

Swap them for this little video:

@Observer-Effect I should 😁

@Heidi68 I've watched that video twenty times and it still kills me! That dude is the richest preacher in history. Nearly a billionaire. He is the one who told his flock he had to buy private jets because he can't be in an airplane with "demons". But not only is he a huge scam artist . . . look at the guy, he looks like a demon! What really bothers me about him, isn't really him, disgusting scammers have always existed. But it really bothers me that he has millions of followers. Terrifying. 😟

@NotReligious71

I have a long history of watching and hating "Dr" Dobson and his Focus on the Family franchise. I was living on the front range of Colorado when they moved their operation to Colorado Springs. C.Springs, like most of Colorado, had been an area long dancing between right wing and progressive extremes for a long time. But FOF moving its thousands of employees to the Springs completely pushed it over the edge into libertarian/right-wing territory.

And then I worked in radio and print media for years, and Focus on the Family has their fingers in so many areas that you can't help but run across their work constantly. Awful people, completely misogynistic, superstitious fascists.

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Same here though I have been feeling much less tolerant of late. It's the willful ignorance that angers me.

Yep, this article really spoke eloquently about that.

[eand.co]

A good section from it:

But the really strange, bizarre, and weird thing isn’t all that — ignorance has always been around, hasn’t it? It’s that today, ignorance is willful. Deliberate. Proud. Boastful, cocky, and exultant. Pompous, high-sounding, and aggrandizing. It waves banners and sings chants and discusses philosophies. Ignorance today thinks of itself as Aristotle by way of Descartes and Kant. The really strange thing about now is that ignorance parades itself as enlightenment.

Ignorance — of every kind, day after day. That’s bad enough. But ignorance proudly presenting itself as wisdom, truth, and enlightenment? In bestsellers, through YouTube “personalities”, by college professors? Now that’s tragedy and comedy both. And yet people buy it. Why? I think this weird phenomenon — of flaunting ignorance as grand-sounding enlightenment — is made of a fatal cocktail of cognitive dissonance, infantile regression, and malignant narcissism.

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.........and in my case, "Unfriend"ing more people on Face Book. Can no one have a civil, friendly conversation/chat any more? My Grandson, who is actually only 21, calls those shallow individuals "Fillers"; I want to take it down one more level and there you find, just below the Fillers, the "Spacers". Just taking up space, using up oxygen, and making others miserable! 🙂 Larry in western Kentucky

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I felt the same way living in NH. I thought Brattleboro was more liberal. In NY we are mixed. I've been out there protesting vs ICE and anti-immigrant activities. When I socialize I'm the only one who brings up politics. I have a few liberal friends here and I vent on Agnostic and FB till I got a one month ban. Frustrating isn't it?

Yeah, I just got booted from FB for a month. It was because of a picture of starving kids in Africa with a note about how well prayer seems to be working. And somebody claimed that there was nudity. There is a shadow in the clothes of a kid thats squatting, where if you are really determined to imagine genitalia you could, but just as easily could see a car or a piano -- just like looking at clouds. It was pretty clear it religiously offended somebody.

I have tried over the last few years to mellow out my vehemence towards religion and crap like homeopathy. But now I'm getting really outwardly angry, because though religion and pseudoscience are not responsible for Covid - they are the primary tools that have been used to disassociate Americans with medicine and science. If we didn't live in such a stupid fucking superstitious/religious nation? We'd have Covid under much more control now. Religion is evil.

Sounds kinda like what happened in Kentucky several years ago. While growing up in the late 50s/60s, Kentucky was a Democratic State. Happy Chandler, Bert Combs, Wendell Ford, Julian Carroll, John Y. Brown, Martha Layne Collins, Paul Patton, all great Governors, and then came Senator McConnell, Republican, and more and more GOP influence throughout the state. Since Mitch, it's a toss-up as to how the state will go. Trump did get trumped in his support of Bevins in his run for re-election and was beat out by Dem. Andy Beshear for the Governor's seat. Yea! 🙂 Larry in western Kentucky

@Observer-Effect -I whole heartedly agree!!!! EVIL in the White House!!!!

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Not mine, if they are incompatible, they are gone, gone, gone . . .

NotReligious71 I don't make a practice of giving family members a special pass, family members often assume they can get away with more because they rely on others to be society rule followers, and in my case, they found out otherwise.

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