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Dating apps and sites in the U.S vs International dating apps and sites abroad

U.S dating apps and sites
I’ve joined just about every popular site, down loaded apps and paid some monthly subscriptions. I’ve sent out messages to plenty of women, I’d say over 100 in the last couple of years. I’ve shown interest and have only received a handful responses and the entire experience had me feeling like a zero.

Int. Dating sites.. I joined popular . Coms and paid some subscriptions, downloaded some apps and it was the complete opposite experience. I received hundreds of emails from women all over the world and I felt like a hero.

So I went from feeling like zero to hero but here’s the catch.. Theres a legitimate difference between online dating sites and apps here in the states vs international dating sites and apps abroad.

Please feel free to chime in with your thoughts =)

Atlas_Rising 5 Apr 6
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Based on my personal experience with dating apps if I'm interested in a guy I almost always will offer up my social media profiles to show them I am who I say I am. But unfortunately I have yet to have any luck meeting any guts who I feel would be worth getting to know any better

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I tried the whole dating app thing for a while and my experiences were so bad I started questioning my self worth. I've never tried any international sites but after reading some of these comments I doubt I will. My dreams of marrying my dominican princess just went out the window lol

@Atlas_Rising I hear that man. I won't say never lol. Any sites you recommend?

Same here, tried online dating and twice both were scams!!! Never doing online dating or long distance types ever again. But it seems to be the way in modern world with so many of us so busy working and taking care of our lives - where do people meet other than just bars, church, etc - through the internet. Being that I am Deaf, it's a million times difficult for me as 99.99999% of the world does not know nor wants to know or learn ASL (American Sign Language).

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I have tried many of the online ones and cancelled them all. Met lots of men but I can get to know people here easier. I am willing to travel and have done so here. If you have few boundaries you will meet people here that are not superficial.

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I do appreciate this space as it serves as a good spot for discussion and community.
Yeah. Most apps designed for dating are worthless for that purpose.

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The international sites have women mostly interested in getting 'help' Coming to America, versus women from America have a different agenda.

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The apps suck. My ex is on a few of them. Boys blow up my messenger for hook-ups. Ew. I won't date anyone anymore.

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I'm lead too believe there a con?

Coldo Level 8 Apr 7, 2018
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Many overseas prospects just want a Caucasian American for an upgrade in status, money, and a green card.

I get the same thing, being besieged with both men and women when I'm abroad, and foreign people of both genders also make friend requests on Facebook, and start declaring their undying love.

Yes, one had me fooled thinking he was a white dude from the army. Only to learn he was an African man and constantly pestered for money. After examining the photo, I realized the army man had a ring on his left hand. But even my friend who is in the army, after reading his messages and photos thought he was real -- we were disgusted of the scam from match(dot)com.

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If the game fits you, then play it. If the game is designed for mass consumption then accept it. Kinda like music.

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I went onto a Chinese site. They guarantee that the women on there come onto you, which they certainly did. I got the free trial, which lasted for only an hour or so. Long enough.

How it worked: the women on there were employees of the website. It was their job to talk up the rubes. They couldn't give out email addresses or phone numbers. The rubes had to pay to talk to the employees.

The women could have just as easily been men-- or bots. There were photos of the women on the site-- all professionally done model shoots, with no selfies in sight.

Sure, it was total and absolute fraud. But they were being no more dishonest than any other dating websites.

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