"Am I doing this right? Could do for some feedback." And sometimes "ouch."

Thinking of my partner, to do otherwise would be a great disservice to both me and my partner.

I am usually not thinking at all i am just lost in sensation. Not there to write a shopping list lol.

Last time was with my ex and I remember thinking "Beige. I should paint the ceiling beige".

I first thoughts are YES! I AM HAVING SEX!!!
Then I think about how it feels and what I am doing. Then what to do next. I ask if she likes it and if it feels good. I ask what she likes. I thnk about other women I have had sex with. And I also have the small anxiety in the back of my head of if I am pleasing her? Could she be lying to spare my feelings and ego? And of course, the OLD classic of every man...is my penis up to par in the size department.

Shit, I hope her husband is not coming, [ like me ! ]

Is this a dating site? I thought it was a discussion forum for interesting ideas. As for your question, I dunno. It's been a while...

I think about what I'm doing to get her off by hand , I love to get her going, moaning, squirming and calling out the big myth's in the sky's name.

Trying to pleasure my partner. Because of this I feel anxious and lazy when getting head.

Just enjoying the intimacy with my lover. Trying to please her with what she wants. The passion and desire.

If I'm in an LTR thinking of my partner.

He's so huge, he might brake my pelvis.
I don't think that's going to fit.

What kind of sandwich she’s gonna make me afterwards. I kid I kid! She won’t be able to walk!

mostly its oh thats nice! or ok lets try this! but i will admit, my mind is always working a million miles per hour, so theres the occasional did i remember 2 pull something out of the freezer 4 dinner? or oh no! what was that noise? is someone listening? i wonder if im 2 jiggly? oh hey back 2 that feels good! r dogs sad that chocolates bad 4 them?

I'm completely as one focused and become one if it's great sex. the rational thinking is after sex when I reflect in a euphoric bliss.

Just having a 'good time,'...if you are thinking about something else...maybe you should not be engaging in sex!

Depends on who I am engaged with, and how long we have been together...or even if I am with someone at all

Basically, "How can I ensure she is getting maximum pleasure from this? "
Without that, I don't derive much pleasure either.

I have fantasized in the past about things that are a turn on for me during sex, when it wasn't doing it for me.

I'm in a situation now, though, where all can think about during sex is the sex we're having. Lost in it, if you will. Getting turned on thinking about it, actually.

I'm not ready for this.

Love when we both have orgöh

I hope what I'm doing is pleasurable/feels good to the woman I am with. The key to a gratifying sex life is that both partners need to be happy and fulfilled.

Depends on if the sex is good or not.

Really depends on who I'm having sex with.

It depends on who I'm having it with.. and the sex of the person (so now you kno...lol)