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If a couple lived in a nudist household, do you think that sex habits would be more spontaneous or keep to the more regimented style. I would think that might be one of the advantages of being in a nudist relationship. What are your thoughts.

lbusche 7 Apr 8
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I think...honestly its non of my business nor yours

I am looking for opinions, not life experiences.

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I've been to a singles resort in sunny warm Jamaica that was nude/prude and sex is not out in the open or spontaneous. Nudism has little to do with the practice of sex. Same with nude beaches/communities.

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Quite the reverse, in my experience. Make nudity the norm, and it loses almost all of its sexual allure. You end up needing to find other ways to stoke up the fire.

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Sex may be more frequent at first but once people get used to being nude it will go back to a normal level. It would depend on what was normal for those involved.

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My little experience with nudity has me thinking that it has nothing to do with sex. To back that up, there's the adage that a woman half clothed is sexier than being fully naked. I concur.

The Neathanderals apparently were more open minded in this regard. The Cro-magnon maybe not as much. Interbreeding must have been interesting. I think there was a movie about this. Anyway along the way, sexual mores , customs and sensibilities changed. What I am wondering if free-thinking has digressed from that or are we still bounded by our current heritage of judeo-christian values.

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I think as a couple you see each other naked all the time and sex is only when you woudl have it regardless. I took a young friend and his girlfriend to dinner last night for his 21st birthday (awesome meal). His mother came along and we went back to her place after to do the birthday cake thing. The young guy and his girlfriend left, and as I was saying good bye, his mother changed out of her more formal clothes. Briefly she was wearing only a g-string. Obviously she is very comfortable with her body and for good reason. Then she walked me to my car and I drove home. So nudity does not equate to sex, sadly.

well you still need agreement between two people. It sounds like you wanted it but she wasn't in the mood despite being so alluring.

@lbusche spot on, she had no interest what so-ever.

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I am inclined to think this was a frivolous question. The obvious answer is that sexual desire involves the mind more than the body. The body is the medium but the mind is in control. One can get turned on by a look, by a smile by body language. Nude bodies, in association with these other features I believe can increase desire.but not so much singularly. Maybe this would have been more true a few decades back. When playboy magazine was coveted by males of many ages. A naked female would invoke strong feelings. I am not sure about the same effect with a naked male. Now nudity is more common place in movies, via the internet and TV. We have been more desensitized to nudity and regard it in a more natural context. Nudism in itself is more of a factor of comfort.

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I think anything can become boring day in and day out and I think sex has little to do with what someone is wearing or not wearing.

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Why should it make a difference?

As Hominid stated, clothed/partially clothed is far sexier than fully naked, so spontaneity would depend on the couple.

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I think it would be like any other open and honest relationship who likes sex. Tbh i think they would be more open to consent and open to body positivy then those who see the body as shamefull.

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Like anything else, when it's new it is stimulating, and then you get use to it and fall into the same routine as the rest of us.

That being said, nudism or not, if you fall into that genre you will probably be having more sex, beause you are more adventurous.

I think people that have a little (or a lot) of kink in their relationships have a lot more fun then the plain vanilla, missionary style, folks. Nothing like a partner who is they type that says, "That looks interesting, let's try it!"

The down side, those that do have a kinky side that wind up with a plain vanilla partner... which often leads to infidelity..Nothing worse than going into a relationship where you have been open about your kink, your partner willfully praticipates and says he or she enjoys it, and 5 or so years into a relationship says I'm never doing that again.

Wait a minute, that was full desclosure you agreed... WTF.

well kink is a whole different kettle of fish and frankly my thought is that for people who are interested in the lifestyle also reside on the kink edge.

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There is neither more nor less sex in a clothing optional household between two people. Often sexy clothing has more allure and is a change from just plain old nudity. Sex appeal may always be there for a couple, (clothes or no clothes) but initiating intimacy is more in the mind, and factors in practicalities such as timing and emotional state.

If you can't look at a nude body without thinking about sex constantly, then maybe you are sexualizing nudity far too much, and in time you'd get over that.

If you are basing your question as if your partner is constantly in a desirous pose with a "come hither" look, as with erotic photos, then maybe you're not thinking about both of you just getting mundane tasks done, that have nothing to do with sex. Maybe it's just hot - and you get used to each other in a more comfortable state of undress.

Initiating sex by either gender should require more than just being nude, though sometimes that's all it takes!

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They probably wouldn't look at each other sexually. All they see is nude bodies. If I were a nudist, I wouldn't want sex. Once you've seen them all naked, the sexual desire would go away.

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Just sleeping naked really helps.

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Erotica is. So personal I doubt the ability for anyone to determine how others are,truly arroused.. Nudist is a natural state. Yet so is the need to cover or,shield a,body from elements.. Culture affects us. In all manner of thinking and actions.. I personally can speak I find jiggly bits more interesting iff they are not hanging over the mashed potatoes....

haha

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Knowing that much of 'sex' is in the mind, it may not change at all. If the couple is older and out of shape, it might even decrease their sex life!..haha...

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Interesting reading, I don't know. I guess it would save time if you did get the urge to be sexual, but would the interest dwindle if nudity was 24/7, apparently so for some people.

Reading many of these comments, I would say that sex drives have dwindled, maybe a statement about our society. Maybe the norm. It seems that as a nudist, I would need a partner that is more sexual than the norm.

Yes well, the norm seems to be quite a medium libido; which I understand can happen over time in a long term relationship. I've never really had one, but never say never 😉

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I have visited a nudist household. It was a couple and a single man. I didn't see anyone have sex there and I didn't have sex there either despite spending the night. I would say no.

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I think it would be less because you've taken the mystery out and brought in the mundane.

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I don't think nudism would have much of an effect on sex habits. I think it's more likely that a couple who already had a certain approach to sexual styles might influence their decision to engage in a nudist lifestyle, but not the other way around.

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I lived in a swingers house for a while.... Lots of fun.....

In that instance, sex is probably going to be more spontaneous

for swingers, you assume everyone wants sex so spontaneity is the key word

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Idk, although I like nuding around the house because I live alone, I DO wear clothes when my lover visits. I don't want to become desensitized by NOT wearing clothes when he visits. There are other issues in play as well. I'm much older than he is & LOOK like

Emme Level 7 Apr 8, 2018

All women in the nude are attractive. The female form is attractive.

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Nudist or not, it's always Has to be a "catch as catchers can" situation regarding sex for parents..Lololololololololol

True

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No. You quickly get used to seeing others naked, and since being nude doesn't imply impending sex, you also lose the sexual reaction, at least for women.

I suppose, for most cis, hetero men women being nude or clothed makes no difference to in their desire to have sex with them.

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clue me in on the "more regimented style"

well you know morning and/or night with a possible noon

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I think it would take away from the allure and you would get used to it myself.

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