I'm not surprised that there are way more men than women who are declared non-believers. I will probably get bashed as sexist for saying this, but I think it's because of gender differences regarding how women are more relationally-oriented than men. In the sense that women are generally more concerned with seeking and maintaining relationships with a community and network of friends and relatives than men. And thus, they are less likely than men to go out on a limb and risk isolation or alienation by taking such a non-conformist path as non-belief. Because such a path means being so far outside of the mainstream that it will be much more challenging for a woman (or man) to find a community or network of like-minded people who will provide fellowship and some kind of church education for their children. So my guess is that women more than men will knuckle under and keep their non-belief to themselves or in denial so they can reap the social benefits of involvement with believer churches and religious organizations. Men are more willing to buck the mainstream and go without those benefits than women because they are less relation-oriented as well as less child-oriented.

I believe at one time the powers that be advertised this as a dating site, however that mindset changed quickly. Either way, I'm not here to date. I'm here to make conversation.

This is not a dating site. Many people join thinking it is.

Well that's disappointing

I have been in a few Pentecostal churches, and was quick to notice that the wealthiest, and most influential members of the congregation always sat in the left front pews. From there, the mayor, police chief, and other 'important' men would pick their noses, ball up the mucous, and flick it ( a ritual originating with 18th century English magistrates, who would flick their mucous at the defendents in criminal cases).
The most impoverished parishioners, as well as the residents of any homeless shelter the church supported sat in the right front pews, so the whole congregation could glare smugly at them.
In the middle pews sat the biggest sinners in town- the drunks, the dopers, the wife- beaters, the dog-beaters, etc.
Behind them sat the single adults shopping for partners.
Behind them, sat the teenagers, monkeying around with each other.
In short, regardless of your station in life, there was a section of pews just for you!
In many small towns, church becomes the focal point of socialization. And the preferred place to go, when in search of romance, or just plain monkeying around!

It breaks my heart.

On dating apps, most Texas women would start with "God is #1" on their profile. First I thought they are declaring their love for God but now it may be a dating trick.

Is this a dating site?

Ironic. The first "outed" atheist I ever met was a woman.

Only one thing for it, then. Go to church, mingle and let it be known you are solvent, wash regularly and currently unattached. Then pick out the women who are there more out of habit than conviction and convince them they don't need religion when instead they could be having a heavenly time with you.

I guess that makes me a very well-kept secret. I'm a self-sufficient single older lady with a little property who is sort of pretty and very interesting. What I have noticed is that men my age tend to want someone two decades younger than I am. And if they will "settle" for a woman of my years, it's because they're looking for either a nurse or a purse. Or both. I am neither.

Am I reading that right? -- around 275 atheist men per 100 atheist women? -- a 2.5:1 ratio?
It's 3:1 if you include agnostics.
Even for "All Other Christian and Christian-Origin Groups" it's 2 :1.

You girls are spoiled. Ha, ha. (Or maybe more likely we men are pathetic.Lol)

I think it has way more to do with distance than the number of men to women. THIS site has so many people from so many different areas/countries/states which makes in person meeting difficult unless you get lucky enough to meet someone from a rather close geographic location. For me, I have met many wonderful people on here but distance & Covid have kept it from being anything more than chat friends. Also, I have noticed quite a few who believe just because they message a woman she should bow down & be enamored because she was messaged. One gets as good as one gives. mo.

My guess is that there are way more non-believing men than women because most women are very focused on having kids and being involved in churches so they have somewhere to take them for religious education and community with other young families. Men are more interested in just finding a partner than shopping for a place that offers things for kids and families, so they do not need a church as much for their goals. Non-believing men can find women thru many other ways than church, but churches are a convenient and widely available way for believer women to meet their wider goals for kids and family after they find a partner.

I'm not very good with graphs but I am not opposed to finding a girlfriend. The thing is, I'm not going to give up what I have to move in with a lady because I have a cheap mortgage. I'm also not going to drop what I have in hopes that I can control what you have. I believe in live and let live, and we each have our own property and money.

I think it's funny that people keep trying to figure out how to make this a dating site.

This is not a surprise.