Nothing like a little holiday racism. At our big dinner most of my family told me they are friendly with Symphrose in our social media groups. I told them that was good. They also told me she is my ex-wife Jackie. Symphrose is a first cousin. Some white people still cannot identify black people.
So you were once married to your black first cousin???
 Cyklone
                                                
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                                                    Cyklone
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Dec 27, 2020                                            
                                        My ex wife is black and my family thought her first cousin was her. Married 12 years and lived together for 10, I suppose some white people have difficulty Identifying black people.
@DenoPenno ahh! Now I understand your post. I'm not all that sure that difficulty differentiating different members of human subgroups is racism as I've noticed the problem is universal. I suspect it has more to do with the type of facial features our brain uses to identify difference and it takes a little while to "recalibrate". In your case however, where one can assume that they knew your exwife well, you're probably correct.